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Karen

Donghae and Siwon
this is my first tiime posting for something. lol. it's more like a homework help. Anyways my psycholgoy teacher asked the girls in the class to ask 10 GUYS about "How hard is it to be a guy?"

so yeah basically i need the guys answer. lol.
 

anan

sarNie Adult
this is my first tiime posting for something. lol. it's more like a homework help. Anyways my psycholgoy teacher asked the girls in the class to ask 10 GUYS about "How hard is it to be a guy?"

so yeah basically i need the guys answer. lol.
- must have everything / create a secure environment for girl (e.g. have a home, a job,... be enough responsible), if we want to marry her lol. (afford a diamon ring lol)
- It's hard to be a guy becos we don't look like to these handsome boyz on TV (Brad pitt, Clooney etc... that makes all girlz fantasiz)
- It's hard to be a guy becos sometimes, we can't cook better than girlz... lol
- It's hard to be a guy becos we are too shy (while girlz are usually very talkative)
- It's hard to be a guy when going to some family's house, and if they saw us knowing how to cook, iron, doing laundry, they usually think we are gay ! lol. :lol:

P.S.
I know that being a girl is harder than guy in general, :p (menstruation stuff, giving birth to babies... ^_^, so we guyz, don't have that much to complain though lol )
 

ohitsnoyyy

Mama Noy ♥️
I'm not a guy.. but i can answer this.

Guys usually have to put more work into getting a girl (ex: approaching a girl in the club)
Guys usually have a harder time expressing their feelings.

that's all i can think of. lol.
 

anan

sarNie Adult
It's hard to be a guy becos we(guyz) have to accept the Scary fact that we are the "Weaker sex" :lmao: (soon if not already):

the main reasons are:

- pollutions(air, food, environment)
- chemical stuff that we use everyday (or eat such as junk foods & Co., alcohol...) that may affect our "tool kit" Lol

[...]
Indeed, new research at the University of Rochester in New York state shows that boys born to mothers with raised levels of phthalates were more likely to have smaller penises and undescended testicles. They also had a shorter distance between their anus and genitalia, a classic sign of feminisation. And a study at Rotterdam's Erasmus University showed that boys whose mothers had been exposed to PCBs grew up wanting to play with dolls and tea sets rather than with traditionally male toys.

Communities heavily polluted with gender-benders in Canada, Russia and Italy have given birth to twice as many girls than boys, which may offer a clue to the reason for a mysterious shift in sex ratios worldwide. Normally 106 boys are born for every 100 girls, but the ratio is slipping. It is calculated that 250,000 babies who would have been boys have been born as girls instead in the US and Japan alone.

And sperm counts are dropping precipitously. Studies in more than 20 countries have shown that they have dropped from 150 million per millilitre of sperm fluid to 60 million over 50 years. (Hamsters produce nearly three times as much, at 160 million.) Professor Nil Basu of Michigan University says that this adds up to "pretty compelling evidence for effects in humans".

But Britain has long sought to water down EU attempts to control gender-bender chemicals and has been leading opposition to a new regulation that would ban pesticides shown to have endocrine-disrupting effects. Almost all the other European countries back it, but ministers – backed by their counterparts from Ireland and Romania – are intent on continuing their resistance at a crucial meeting on Wednesday. They say the regulation would cause a collapse of agriculture in the UK, but environmentalists retort that this is nonsense because the regulation has get-out clauses that could be used by British farmers.
Source:
The Independant, http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/...ex-1055688.html (very interesting reading ^_^)


So, Possible consequences :rolleyes: :
- More baby girlz than boyz ---> Guyz gonna be more like Casanova ? high temptation with full of pretty girlz world hihi
- Guyz gonna tend to be more feminist hihi,
- Guyz gonna try to use & share his gf lotion & beauty products stuff lol...
- Guyz gonna try to understand better girlz..., caring more too ?? lol
 

fun

Expired Sarnie
I have asked my brother, he said that it is hard to be a guy because woman can’t understand them. Guys try to put in effort but the girls never try to see that. He said some other random stuff but I find this something funny.
 

7270

7270
i was looking for gloves at macy's yesterday. there were about 3 selections for guys. all fugly. i pass by the women's section, & they have at least 10 variety. :eek: guys don't get much of a selection, when it comes to clothing, etc.... -_- girls get at least 2 floors! guys get 1/4 of a store floor. what the heck.
 

darvil

sarNie Adult
This is a good question.

I'm going to lay out some of the most prominent issues with being a dude. Might be more info then you were seeking.


First the man in the modern world is almost being forced to become more metrosexual and by that I mean more sensitive, more clean, more understanding, fun to talk to, humorous, more womanly basically. This is a problem since men was not this way for eons. Ever seen fight club? That is what happens.

Second, men have to deal with all the BS stuff these days that has to do with finding a mate. Long gone were the days when you could just go talk to the girl's father and give him some cows and take the girl home. Hell how about just clubbing the girl and dragging her to my cave? Now days men are forced to play mind games with girls which we usually lose anyway. Alot of cultural creations such as Valentine and new cultural mores just on a rat race on trying to gain points with the girl, is tiring and confusing for the modern man.

Third, Men have to deal with more expectations. Whether you agree with the fairness of it all, there are more expectations placed on men then women. There are of course exception to the rule but generally across the globe, men have more "pressure" to succeed. This is also why men are often better treated in the family then women. Sure it is nice for men that they have more access to resources but its not all so cherry with the added pressure unless of course the family is already rich and the man can't really screw up. If a woman doesn't make it people in society are more forgiving then if a man fail or is seen to be a loser. Remember I'm making a general all across the board case here.

Fourth, men have more problems connecting with other men. This can leads to emotional problems as society tells men to repress their emotions to be "manly" where women generally more friends and they are generally open enough to talk out issues. For an example, think of a guy who is broken up by a break up. I don't think it would be easy for him to talk to his friends about the anguish. At least not easily whereas females have an army of emo girlfriends to assist in such problems.

Fifth, job discrimination exists for both sexes. What is your opinion about a male nurse vs a female nurse? Although I admit this is not a very strong case.

Sixth, men are more discriminated in the parenting world. Even if the man may be equal to or better equipped to be a parent, the courts favor females. Why is that? Well I don't know either but it may just have to do with our perceptions on which sex is the better parent.

Seventh, in sexual cases, men are not treated fairly. Just imagine a case where a male teacher having sex with a minor vs a female teacher having sex with a minor. The courts are more tougher against men. Now I actually don't believe that the woman should be as toughly punished as the male but my point being, things should be fair in the courts but it ain't.

Eight, women have the sex card. That pretty much explains it all. It is a very powerful card that gives alot of power to a woman if she uses it wisely.



Thats all I can think up for now. I could write up a similar list for women too. I just wanted to make a point that things aren't so simple in the guy world either. I know alot of women wishes they were males instead. Yea well ladies, the scenery isn't that rosy on the other side of the pond.
 

genkers

sarNie Juvenile
its hard to be a guy bc we get blame for every little shit
 

ohitsnoyyy

Mama Noy ♥️
i was looking for gloves at macy's yesterday. there were about 3 selections for guys. all fugly. i pass by the women's section, & they have at least 10 variety. :eek: guys don't get much of a selection, when it comes to clothing, etc.... -_- girls get at least 2 floors! guys get 1/4 of a store floor. what the heck.
:lol: At times I wish I were a guy simply because it's easier to shop for them.
Girls, we gotta try clothes on.

its hard to be a guy bc we get blame for every little shit
LOL. I gotta agree with you on that. Girls quick to blame guys for things, I'm not. LOL.
They have a tendency to always be right. It's what makes them feel empowered is knowing that we can get a guy to say "I'm sorry, I was wrong"



Darvil, you make some very good points. ;)


Like they say.... "the man wears the pants in the relationship but the woman controls the zipper." :lol:
 

anan

sarNie Adult
"the man wears the pants in the relationship but the woman controls the zipper." :lol:
LOL,,, i like that sentence :lol:
Girlz == bad, always control & drive guyz crazy LOL...

P.S.
nice signature ohitsnoyyy, lol, Marilyn Monroe == Hot :drool: ,,,, woman woman,,, so smart & manipulative... ^_^
 

ohitsnoyyy

Mama Noy ♥️
LOL,,, i like that sentence :lol:
Girlz == bad, always control & drive guyz crazy LOL...

P.S.
nice signature ohitsnoyyy, lol, Marilyn Monroe == Hot :drool: ,,,, woman woman,,, so smart & manipulative... ^_^
LOL. Thanks. you can just call me Noy :D The majority of girls are clingy, controlling & all that stuff... me, i'm far from that. I'm more like the guys. haha.

& Marilyn Monroe's hot. We need more curvaceous women like her.
 

amikrazie

sarNie Oldmaid
awww karen you should have one for girls too lol

these are some very good point made by the guys & girls too! :)
 

Karen

Donghae and Siwon
awww karen you should have one for girls too lol

these are some very good point made by the guys & girls too! :)
haha. Yeah i wish my psychology teacher would like us do it for the girls too.

thanks everybody for the answer. i'll have lots to write about and give it to him. lol
 
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