oooh This is just too tempting.
i'm lost. what's hard to believe? i really don't know what u are referring to. the me not knowing about spicy thing? Whatever it may be, you’ve obviously already made a judgment about ME in your attempt to “attack ideas”. Nothing in here gives u enough to put my bond with natty into a location. It’s a simple diagnosis that should have been made on my behalf, instead of being twisted against me. I would not lie about something that menial.
First off, I'm sorry I've offended you and before you go off and say something like: where the hell I came to the conclusion that you're offended, please note, this whole response of yours suggest a defensive tone and a defensive tone is only a natural response from someone who is offended. You are blowing things out of proportion. Seriously, I know you can say the same to me so go ahead.
You're lost. I'm not. What's so hard to believe? Did I just not tell you I was jaded and cynical? I believe I did. And no, I've not made a judgment about you. Pinpoint now where I made that judgment, else your claim remains unsubstantiated. I've put your bond into a location? Sorry, I did not, burden of proof is in your hands. And seriously, "attack ideas"? you're really hung up on those words huh. I'm sorry those words riled you up, but I only stated it IF I was attacking at all, and I've been in far too many debates to not realize such an accusation might come up soon. And apparently, my so-called "attempt" succeeded.
And i'm not trying to make kashie look like anything. Do not put words or attempts in my mouth. she really did misunderstand where i was coming from. Plain and simple. u making the "exaggerating" statement only makes my response tainted with negative tendencies that I am surely not making. I was only defending myself. Noticed I said defend, not justify. Pull whatever u want from Wikipedia to argue this.
I'm sorry, where are you getting this idea that I am pulling things from wikipedia? Dear, you are rude. And note, I'm not putting words into your mouth, I'm stating only what I see as you actually making it look like Kashie was exaggerating and you're the cool one who's just joking around telling her she might be offended, wanting to bite your head off, or whatever. Seriously, you can deny that you did not mean to portray her that way, but telling her those things I've just listed downplays her points by literally chainging the issue at hand from the point's she's actually making to
HER.
as for this statement here, the use of "reasonable human being" is somewhat of a weak counter. as with everything else, it is up for interpretation...just as much as it often gets misinterpreted. if i don't be careful with how i handle "reasonable human being", i might just end up being accused of calling someone else inhuman. u gotta understand that i, too, had an opinion about kashie's situation with the admin at spicy. how anyone interprets my words (just on that matter) does not bother me one bit. but for someone to reinterpret my character based on "parsimonious conclusions" tells me that that person felt attacked...which is the last thing i want them to feel. it would be so much easier (and way cooler) if we had webcam forums. that way we could all see each other's mannerisms and facial expressions. but we don't, so we must find another way to reconfigure people's impressions a little more correctly. whether we can, want to or need to anything, including justify or verify, is not about seeking approval. it just about making things more clear before you let your imagination run wild in a real situation...especially since we can't truly "see" one another. we are, after all, sharing a playground here (i.e., sw). we want to make friends, not foes. am i gonna need verification on this? hahahaa get it? ok, nvm, bad joke. hahaha
Excuse me, but you asked Kashie: "how does this make you look?" Dear, you are confused. That was not a counterargument, hun (sorry I have a habit at this sometimes), it was literally an answer to your QUESTION. So I'm sorry, I'm gonna have to ignore those jibberish about interpretations or whatever, because, dear, I was not trying to argue about this. Though now I must ask, what answer were you expecting after asking Kashie, "how does this make you look?"
In terms of this statement, i would have said the same thing. thanks. wait, i take that back...sw IS my life. lol
I respect that. :3
Okay.
i hope kashie doesn't interpret it the same way u did.
If she didn't, why did you have a need to clarify this issue about SW being a venting central?
First of all, tina is tina and thookatha is thookatha. the reason why i personally had to say "i'm not taking sides" is really complex, you see. it's because i'm not taking sides. if there was any defense, it was for the fact that some people may not like my interpretation of what that particular admin stated towards kashie. i'm not sure what tina wrote (because I haven’t had time to go through all the responses) but understand that the familiarity people have with one another does not have to be labeled through places. ur argument seems to insinuate that bonds (from certain places) concluded in tainted opinions of the "harmful joke". that's not the case.
LOL. First off, of course Tina is Tina, Thooktha is Thooktha. And I've implied this, but please pinpoint to me where I was insinuating that familiarity people have with one another HAVE to be labeled through places. I feel like you've misinterpreted my comments, if you've interpreted them at all.
overall, you had many well worded "arguments", and u did attack ideas…just as much as you attacked people…perhaps unknowingly. but also understand that ideas can not generate without a person behind it. it's a fine boundary that makes us question and feel certain interpretations....just as u repeatedly concluded that i was familiar with spicy (yet i don't need to justify myself). whether i justify myself or not is not the point. the point is that i don't want kashie to feel as though i was attacking her...at the same time, I had to defend myself against words that began to attack me and not my ideas. no more, no less. and more importantly, i would have been more content if the person i was responding to was kashie right now. but since u prepared such a formal contest on her behalf, i have responded. i just hope my previous words for kashie don’t become tainted with your insight (not that it is not excellent).
Sorry, but I did not ask for your
opinions about my "well-worded 'arguments'". hehe. Why are you quoting "arguments"? I'm sorry, reading comprehension tells me you've implied an insult, but of course, I'm just
assuming. LULZ
Also, I'm sorry, but "repeatedly" is overstating it. And you're wrong, I'm sorry but you're wrong. You seem to be jumping to the conclusion that I'm always assuming you're familiar with spicy. I said once that I find it hard to believe, and then later I've never mentioned it. I've also implied once that you're familiar with Natty, but you cannot say that I've implied the same thing with spicy '"repeatedly".
I almost forgot, good then, I give you the benefit of the doubt since you're re-affirming that you were not attacking Kashie.
And telling you that I do not believe you != attacking you. The only thing that I can presume you seeing me attack you is when I said "please don't make it look like Kashie is exaggerating" and I've explained this ^^up up there somewhere. Otherwise, I'm sorry, when making claims that I'm doing something, i.e commitinga a crime, please provide proof, i.e from my own words.
ADMINS...MODS...CLOSE THIS IF U WANT.
Ditto.