Recent content by Cat

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    Issue with family overseas

    Literally, my parents have taken out loans in order to give money to her relatives. Thousands of dollars over the years. My mom lies to us about the amounts but we've seen all the western union receipts and we're just like - don't lie mom, we already know because we saw the receipts and we don't...
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    Issue with family overseas

    Hey everyone, I was just wondering how you handle relatives asking for money? I'm somewhat afraid that it's going to turn into a whole second generation thing with my family. I'm worried that my mom's family will turn to me for money and their children will continue to behave that way to my...
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    16 Myers-Briggs Personality Types

    I'm an INTJ-A which makes sense since I'm very introverted.
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    Quarter life crisis

    Yes-I periodically experience a panic attack where I think it's too late for me to achieve my dreams and I should just settle for a life in retail aka hell!!!! But then I realized that it's never too late to turn my life around and go for my dreams. I'm not perfect and I didn't do things...
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    What will you do if you win the lottery?

    I would keep it top secret [from everyone except my brother and husband] pay off all my student loans and debts and my brother and husband's loans and debt as well pay for someone to teach my mom English move to a gated community create a trust that will take care of living expenses for my...
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    I hate it when...

    People who are lazy When people would rather beg than work and then blame everyone else for their life When elders would rather have you get married and have kids instead of finishing your education When my mom's siblings in Laos call to beg for money and then use it on beer and gambling instead...