I dated this person once. We broke up on pretty good terms I guess. Now he texts me from time to time. He knows me very well and knows that I hate anything type of engagement with the phone. I don't like texting, talking, anything. Unless it's absolutely important I won't respond or pick up. If it is important they'll leave a voicemail.
Lately, he's been acting kind of childish. He knows that I will never see him more than just a friend anymore (being that I'm married and he knows this very well) and I've told him. I even said if it's hard for you to accept then maybe this ex turns friends thing won't work. He said I was thinking to much. I tried again to ignore it
Now, if he texts me and I don't respond within 5 minutes (normally i don't answer for days cause school and work no time for this) he'll send other text messages, "are you ok?" "are you mad at me?" "Is something wrong?" "did I do something wrong?"
Me at this point is very aggravated so I tell him. He then sends another text
"I'm sorry for taking up so much of your time in life. I am sorry for inconvience that I may have caused you and I hope you can forgive me."
At this point I find it best to just ignore him. I've talked to him and explained as much as I possibly could to him.
Well, the jackass will not give up on making me feel guilty. He logs on yahoo and sends a group message:
"Hey this is ____'s brother (I think it's actually him). I just want to let you know that my brother committed suicide because of some cold and careless b*ch."
Well, initially I was like wow serious? I asked his cousin who is a friend of mines and his cousin said, "what really?" I was kind of surprised thinking that family should already know and be planning his funeral.
Son of a mother... 2 days later (today) he texts me and asked me how I'm doing.
You and your psycho ass family need to stay away from me, quit texting me, e-mailing me, calling me, I'm changing my instant messager id.
Anyhow, now he's texting my friends that he knows and telling them all these sob stories about how he misses talking to me and wish I didn't abandon him because this relative is in the hospital or has passed away (by the way this is like the 25th time a relative is sick or passed away this year)
So I finally had enough and told him to back off and leave my friends alone. I also told him that his damn sob stories don't work on me because I am one of the most careless human beings on earth and he needs to get the eff out of my life.
Also, he tells me of how he needs money for this and that (expecting me to tendure him money)
So at this point I have cut all ties with him even told my friends to ignore him. NOW he is messaging and e-mailing my little sisters!
I smell restraining order on the way.
Sorry I just had to vent. I know it sounds for the most part my fault for not picking up sooner
Tina oh Tina where the eff do you pick up these losers =/