*shivers* my grandma gave me the "talk" which is "you know" anyways she said men care about your virginity. Now she was born in the 30's and put into and arranged marriage with a man 2 decades older, I believe times have definitely changed and I for one do not agree with her. Men nowadays I bet 90% don't care about the "v" word. Society has changed, even in uptight Asian societies sex has already been somewhat opened up. I would argue with my grandma on this one but when arguments involve sex, things get awkward and I'd rather not discuss sex with her. It would be great to get some men opinions on this subject, I really am genuinely interested in what you have to say.