Thanks everyone for your honest opinion on my relationship. I really appreciate it! Well, we called it quits only after a few months. He had the last words in our relationship - he said that even though I may end it, its not over until he says its over. He questioned me why I have no faith and trust in him. I explained to him how I honestly felt and I directed him to this thread which he read and was shocked about everyone's responses. I told him everything and why I think he can't stand up for himself. He said I have changed since we started dating and this person is not the one he fell in love with. I was really hurt when he said that to me. Well, between me and him... its over on my side... Its been a really hurtful few days but I am pulling through. He is still calling me, texting me, and leaving me messages but I am trying really hard not to respond to them. It really hurts ending a long-term friendship along with a short-lived love like relationship.
Been listening to Maiv Huas Hawj's songs: Tsis Yog Wb Hmoov and Hlub Tso Cia. These are the only songs which makes me feel like I can let go. Any good sad songs you can offer would help me. Thanks again sarnies.
Girl, don't be hurt.
Sorry to say but your boyfriend must be nuts for saying that you changed.
Who said being
friends and
dating were the same. When dating, there are expectations.
Perhaps, you two are only good for friends. That happens, sometimes people know each other for so long and well, that they think they are compatible for each other yet they're not but dont take what i said to the heart k, i'm just saying.
Sorry, your going through a tough time but you deserve someone so much better. A guy who can actually stand up for himself and not leave you hanging. He's selfish and is only thinking about himself. This is not the kind of guy you will want to be with. Say, if your boyfriend goes to Laos. Don't be with him anymore. Change your number if possible.
And don't listen to sad songs when you are sad, it will only make you more sad. Listen to happy songs and go out and do something so you won't think of him. Hang in there PeNgUIn*3o3.