ok..easy question..how do you reject someone?
here's ones that I've already used.
1. I'm happily married. Then the guy start saying stuff like, nowadays everyone is getting a divorce, and that my husband won't be/isn't as faithful as he is. -_- (I usually use this one at work, and most of the time, the guys that hit on me says things that tries to break up me and 'my husband'.)
2. I have a boyfriend. answer that I get: Is he around here ?, if not, let's hang out and let me get to know you more. <--- maybe he just wants to be friends..
3. I'm sorry, I go for girls. this one is..I don't know what to say..when I say that they usually say, "Oh, that's fine. I can find you a girl and we can all get together and do things."
4. Sorry, I'm not interested. "How would you know if you never tried?" how do I answer to that..?
5. Sorry, I'm really busy. I have to go. *runs off* I sometimes get ones that follows me to the car..and some just stand there shouting for me..how embarrassing..
6. Sometimes! I can't think of an excuse, and somewhat panicked. And I end up giving them my phone number so they can just leave already. <-- horrible..I know..but I really panic...(My sisters always made fun of me because of that..)
anyways..what are some of the things that you guys say to reject someone? Can anybody help? I thought of saying, "Sorry, but you're ugly." but that's just mean...I'm REALLY desperate!!!!
I was going to end the post here, but thought I'd share a moment with everyone. This was when a guy was hitting on me, at least..I think he was..
Me: *standing in line waiting to check out at Wal-Mart*
Him: *comes stand next to me*
Me: *turns to look at him*
Him: *smiles*
Me: *returns the smile and turn away*
Him: I like your purse.
at that moment, I thought he was gay. And he started saying more stuff about how he likes my clothes..how I dress..how I look..and my body shape -_- (when he gets up to there, it scares me)..and asked for my number..hmmm..maybe he just wanna get together and go shopping together like what girl friends do..
here's ones that I've already used.
1. I'm happily married. Then the guy start saying stuff like, nowadays everyone is getting a divorce, and that my husband won't be/isn't as faithful as he is. -_- (I usually use this one at work, and most of the time, the guys that hit on me says things that tries to break up me and 'my husband'.)
2. I have a boyfriend. answer that I get: Is he around here ?, if not, let's hang out and let me get to know you more. <--- maybe he just wants to be friends..
3. I'm sorry, I go for girls. this one is..I don't know what to say..when I say that they usually say, "Oh, that's fine. I can find you a girl and we can all get together and do things."
4. Sorry, I'm not interested. "How would you know if you never tried?" how do I answer to that..?
5. Sorry, I'm really busy. I have to go. *runs off* I sometimes get ones that follows me to the car..and some just stand there shouting for me..how embarrassing..
6. Sometimes! I can't think of an excuse, and somewhat panicked. And I end up giving them my phone number so they can just leave already. <-- horrible..I know..but I really panic...(My sisters always made fun of me because of that..)
anyways..what are some of the things that you guys say to reject someone? Can anybody help? I thought of saying, "Sorry, but you're ugly." but that's just mean...I'm REALLY desperate!!!!
I was going to end the post here, but thought I'd share a moment with everyone. This was when a guy was hitting on me, at least..I think he was..
Me: *standing in line waiting to check out at Wal-Mart*
Him: *comes stand next to me*
Me: *turns to look at him*
Him: *smiles*
Me: *returns the smile and turn away*
Him: I like your purse.
at that moment, I thought he was gay. And he started saying more stuff about how he likes my clothes..how I dress..how I look..and my body shape -_- (when he gets up to there, it scares me)..and asked for my number..hmmm..maybe he just wanna get together and go shopping together like what girl friends do..