dark_angel22
sarNie Egg
A friend of mine is in a situation where she met a guy online in a game room. They have so much fun when they get online and play. But he made it clear and was up front about being married with children, at the beginning. And everything was cool, playing games online and stuff, but one day they ended up exchanging e-mails and then recently they exchanged numbers and been talking. He works grave yard shift and use it as an opportunity to talk to her. Kicking it with her and hearing them talk, I feel they have great chemistry and I think they really feeling each other. And she been confiding in me about stuff and the consequences and so on. The problems are distance (they live many states apart) and the fact he's married with children. Them meeting is not impossible. As a matter of fact it is very possible and do-able. Messing around is also very possible, but the million dollar question is what happens next after they hook up.
I told my friend I been in a situation where I was the girlfriend and I been in situation where I was the other woman, but that's because I didn't know he was married and he never told me. But she knows he's married and with children. I asked her how she would feel if someone messed up her happy home. But she was like if he was happy he wouldn't be talking to me. I dunno I'm the type of person I don't like to give advice. I'm more of the listerner. No matter what I think at the end of the day the person is still gonna do what they gonna or wanna do. But in the same token she is one of my good friends. I don't want to see her hurt. I know the guy have more to lose, but my friend deserve to be more than a side piece. And she was of those girls that I least expected to be in these type of situation.
What would you do if you were in my situation?
I told my friend I been in a situation where I was the girlfriend and I been in situation where I was the other woman, but that's because I didn't know he was married and he never told me. But she knows he's married and with children. I asked her how she would feel if someone messed up her happy home. But she was like if he was happy he wouldn't be talking to me. I dunno I'm the type of person I don't like to give advice. I'm more of the listerner. No matter what I think at the end of the day the person is still gonna do what they gonna or wanna do. But in the same token she is one of my good friends. I don't want to see her hurt. I know the guy have more to lose, but my friend deserve to be more than a side piece. And she was of those girls that I least expected to be in these type of situation.
What would you do if you were in my situation?