Sometimes you just have to accept things for what it is and move on especially when you know you've done all your could. Don't care too much about holding them back if they don't want to stay ... Which reminds me of that favorite quote of mine, "If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were." Always remember to never regret because you did your part and if they don't want to stay then let them be...the pa...