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cecilia
cecilia
Why? Nothing wrong with a woman being older than her man ... if the two have mutual agreements on how to run things/respect each other and are in love then they should not have to put up with society's vision of a perfect couple. Noi is older than Ken and Aff is older than her husband. Both seems to be very understanding and supportive of their husbands without stepping over their toes. Don't let age defines love :)
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Ms.Zoe
Ms.Zoe
What about if scenario older heroine & younger hero is depicted in dramas & movies? How do you feel about it? It's the quality of their love stories that I'm interested in. Personally I don't have any problem of this scenario whether in novels, movies & dramas or even in real life :).
sarN
sarN
I'm a cougar.
cecilia
cecilia
I need a good man to help run a happy/warm home lol I don't like the word 'cougar' because to me, young or old, love is love <3
sarN
sarN
I like the idea of older hero & younger heroin too but now that I'm wiser in age , I realize the cold true , man love young woman & if you past the ripe age , it's harder to find someone around your age & the man around your age prefer a younger woman loll . And I do not want older man , the young one are yummier , what can I do? Settle for less b/c of age? I want to be a sugar mamas lol
cecilia
cecilia
I agree that men tend to like young girls and vise versa for maturity reason but I think your Mr.Right has not made his way to you yet so don't cut yourself short on older men. Perhaps, they are better than the younger men in term of maturity and control w/reasons. I personally don't mind older or younger (less than 6 years lol) depending on maturity/leadership levels.
cecilia
cecilia
I don't have money to be a sugar mama to him and I'm sure he doesn't need me to be one either (he has his parent/mom to provide that already) ... but for his soccer team of children and our happy home, I don't mind being one at heart lol
sarN
sarN
I lost my chances w/ several Mr.Right , there a saying, do not look far but notice the ones below your nose & once you lost it , then you realize it's worth . I let my prejudice rule out lots of good man , I will never learn my lesson b/c my heart wants what the heart want & chase after those that I know will never last . It like a drug, you know it's bad but it's to addicting.
cecilia
cecilia
LOL Maybe instead of taking those bad drugs ... take the good ones to slowly heal your addiction lol

Back to this topic ... an older woman can protect/help her younger man if needed .. it doesn't have to always be the other way around with man protecting woman. Love needs to be carried out by both partially/equally -- not just one doing it at all time ;)
sarN
sarN
b.bb..but I don't want to be heal LOL those drug are yummy ^^^^ taste like gummy bear. Yes. An older woman can protect just like the older man BUT some men are unappreciated & see it as dominant & older woman are insecure in those type of relationship, therefore, most of the time it doesn't work out. I never stray to far from reality & accept what ever fate it might lead too ^^
cecilia
cecilia
I watched a clip last night of a single mom .. .I think anything is possible. I will settle with the man I love but if I'm not destine to have a life with that man then I'm okay with having/adopting a child of my own. I can pour all of my love to that child without ruining his/her life due to spoiling him/her too much. I'll try to be a decent/good guardian to him/her :)
sarN
sarN
Ohhh , I want babies !! Regardless if the daddy is w/ me or not , I wouldn't even mad at the daddy lollll , good lord, impregnate me & left if he want . I want a child to spoil him/her rotten , just w/ my siblings I spoil them already, imagine if I have a bady! The world as we know it , will be full of rainbow & unicorn!
cecilia
cecilia
lol You're pulling a Dao Kaew Din moves ... should you look for that perfect man to do the job then?

Jokes aside - the single mom situation is somewhat similar to what you want except they broke up a few months before she found out she was pregnant. She was scared that she might have to marry her ex to be safe from the eyes of society but luckily she has an understanding mom so she did not have to.
sarN
sarN
I might end up w/muitl baby's daddy from different race LOL! My parents are a bit strict but if I was to be a single mom , I know they would accept me regardless, they might complain & leture lolll. Let pray I get knock up ^^^ by a hottie
cecilia
cecilia
Wouldn't it be better to get knocked up by the one you love? I suppose the one night stand love will count as well because you did love him for the day/night or few hours lol I'm sure all parent feel that way with their daughter -- My parent prefer to have an Hmong son-in-law. I told them love has no race, color, and etc. so try to be open/accepting of others. We'll see how they react in the future lol
sarN
sarN
Idk, love & lust is a thin line but good lord, I'm scar of one night stand , I'm not fishes LOL , then again, never said never , anything is possible b/c I have gone thur & survive the worst area of world & seen all kinds of people in the most desperate situation. Expect the unexpected .
cecilia
cecilia
Definitely, expect the unexpected because you're possible :)
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