AFN (Asianfuse network)

I agree, a real no is better than a fake yes. I think it is like that in every race though. I have a friend who dated another friend because he pitied her because she was so in love with him, and he didn't want to hurt her. They ended up getting married and having kids. After 13 years, he finally told her he had been in love with someone else the entire time,

but that girl was with someone else at the time. None of these people involved were Asian. I think it is sometimes people being too nice

My goodness! That’s super sad! Imagine being stuck with that woman for so many years only to tell her he was never in love with her. Lord, have mercy!!

Yes, and sometimes it makes me wonder, if it is really being too nice or actually being cruel? Holding down someone knowing you have no feelings like that for them lol. Breaking their heart early is better than breaking their heart after years of investment.

Where are they now? Are they still together? I def think it’s better to be upfront and blunt then to beat around the bush. Never lead nobody on! But some girls are very desperate too, so no matter how the guy treats them, they cling on to him like it’s nobodys business! It sucks either way. They just end up destroying their own feelings. #sucks