Yass, was trying to comfort my BFF over it, cause she thinks she is behind in life, when really there is no measurement of behind or ahead! Everyone is different.
Exactly what I needed. Thank you. I'm seeing my batchmates getting married,traveling anywhere in the world while I'm here stuck and can't even find my work-life balance.
@Maricon , you're doing fine from what I see on the forum. I am 30 and barely getting to the end of an undergrad degree, while my classmates are getting their masters degree. I couldn't be more proud to know them. However, I remember that I had other things happen in life to change my path. Every life is different, every circumstance is different, no one is slower than anymore, we just walk at different rates.
I think what makes it worse is when others tell you where you’re supposed to be at and what you’re supposed to be doing ! Recently, my sister’s bf was making fun of me and telling me to get a bf or else he would find me one! It made me feel so rushed and I was embarrassed cuz I’ve never had a bf. But yeah I’ll just go at my pace and not rush things, because it either isn’t my time, or wasn’t meant for me.