YM_gurl
sarNie Oldmaid
you are right at some point. but about what u said.I'm a guy here, I understand you preferred a girl's opinion but I would like to comment on this issue if that's not a problem. If one's looking from a girl's point of view, I'm guessing most would say to leave the guy and that he's not man enough. That is what a typical woman would say. Not that that isn't true, that is somewhat true in a way, but you must first try to understand what the guy is getting at. Men and women have different behaviors, especially when it comes to communication. With this said, it is really important to understand each other with an open mind. One must never get upset over the smallest issue if anyone ever want a relationship to work. Never draw any conclusions unless you truely understand the situation. This is the reason why there are so many divorces today, because of poor communication skills between males and females.
I'm a guy, I'll always listen to my elders no matter if it's good or bad because it won't hurt you. Like I said to some of my friends, just take what's good and leave the bad out. One thing I'm seeing today is the childrens today do not respect their elders. They feel that what they're saying are a lot of nonsense, but if you actually take time to understand what they're getting at, you'll learn some lifelong lessons and this is the Truth! Whenever you have free time, go have a little chat with your parents or grandparents, you'll learn a lot.
IT IS IMPORTANT TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER W/AN OPEN MIND? sometimes, women can't be open mind, if their husband doesn't trust them. you can't be open mind w/him. especially when he listens to his parents only or shall i say.. most of the time.. that's not fair.
True, there are many divorces today due to poor communication. but look at the hmong marriages. Most hmong men, not all but most tends to listen to their parents more than their wife..that leads to divorces at some case.. & of course depends on the husband..
-- There you go "danger" u said it!!!!!! "you will always listen to your elders no matter if its good or bad. "
i, myself respect my elders but because hmong men like you think this way. its not fair. yes, its not nonsense but please, make ur own decision to life too. are you a good boy? haha.. j/k.