pink_juliet_kashie
sarNie Oldmaid
okay life story...but since i started this topic i'll give my lilo story jah...
anyways i do come from a quite traditional family...men eat first in the house women eat 2nd outside wen we do jingle bell...those kind of tings...i was like the first person in my WHOLE relatives to ever date outside of my ethnicity...race watever...i'm not encouraging it nor perventing it...but from my experience...you'll probably run into a lot of problems w/ your parents....relatives..and all i got to say if decide if it's worth it...for my particular situation i dated the guy for the wrong reasons...not gonna state...but yeah..anywayz...juz ask yourself if the guy or girl is worth you getting on bad terms w/ your parents...or your relatives..and you have to know how the hmong community will react to you wenever you are around..so u're reputation is at stake...honestly rite now a lot of ppl still lable me as that girl tat date tat one _______ guy...doesn't bother me much but you know it gets to you sometimes..and i just hope these reasons don't encourage you to date other race for the mere reasons tat your parents are preventing you to do so...it was a good experince...but honestly i do plan to marry a hmong guy..but if someting else happen i guess i'm fine w/ it...but now looking back and looking at how my relatives live their lives and realize and understand why my parents would not allowing it...he would have totallie not fit in..and in the long run just cause distress for me, him, my family and everyone else....so okay there's my life story jah...
anyways i do come from a quite traditional family...men eat first in the house women eat 2nd outside wen we do jingle bell...those kind of tings...i was like the first person in my WHOLE relatives to ever date outside of my ethnicity...race watever...i'm not encouraging it nor perventing it...but from my experience...you'll probably run into a lot of problems w/ your parents....relatives..and all i got to say if decide if it's worth it...for my particular situation i dated the guy for the wrong reasons...not gonna state...but yeah..anywayz...juz ask yourself if the guy or girl is worth you getting on bad terms w/ your parents...or your relatives..and you have to know how the hmong community will react to you wenever you are around..so u're reputation is at stake...honestly rite now a lot of ppl still lable me as that girl tat date tat one _______ guy...doesn't bother me much but you know it gets to you sometimes..and i just hope these reasons don't encourage you to date other race for the mere reasons tat your parents are preventing you to do so...it was a good experince...but honestly i do plan to marry a hmong guy..but if someting else happen i guess i'm fine w/ it...but now looking back and looking at how my relatives live their lives and realize and understand why my parents would not allowing it...he would have totallie not fit in..and in the long run just cause distress for me, him, my family and everyone else....so okay there's my life story jah...