okay, so im a guy here...lol and i just wanted to say the the lyrics confused me a bit...at the beginning, i felt like the song was about a player...lol yea i imagined me in it..lol all young n all n bein a player...but then when i got to the chorus..i felt like an OG (old guy) trying to holla at young hmong girls in thailand....lol
TXIV DEV wouldn't be that offensive to me...but I believe that AV guy members are still kinda young and this song(by what i read and understood) would kinda make them seem old, in their thirties, and wouldn't match them much....it's understandable for the girl, but kinda awkward for the guys...
Lol…the song is to be sung by Ms. Angel of AV. The boys can serve as window dressing in this song…lol….
In a sense this is a pre-cursor to Ms. Angel’s solo career should she opt for it at the end of their contracts. I have always maintained that I did not intend for them to be in a group forever. Sure they may be AV (and forever will be), but I have always told them that AV would be the first step to their solo careers once their contract ends.
Speaking of the all girl singing group….
I wish I could put one together…(I could, but I'm afraid of DRAMA...and here's the reasons why.....).
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It is very hard to be in a group (especially if you’re all perfect strangers). You have different personalities and different backgrounds clashing all the time. Then there’s the “j� word. Believe it or not..and deny it all you want, but there’s bound to be “jealousies� when you have a group. Someone will always sing better than you, look better than you, is a better person than you and has more fans than you, but you have to overcome that feeling of insecurity and jealousy and be able to step aside and let your teammates shine.
Teamwork is about helping each other grow and knowing yourself well enough to sacrifice your wants and needs in favor of your teammates when deemed necessary for the good of the group as a whole. It is no longer all about “I�, it is about “we�. Regardless….in the end , this very issue will still plague a group… And in the end, only the toughest will survive a group setting. Some will leave because of family issues, some because of financial issues, some on personal issues, or they just can’t hack it. BUT…I also believe that if you really want it bad enough…you will find a way regardless of how tough fate deals your cards.
Lol…I can go on forever about this subject but I think you all got the drift. I’ve learned so much this past two years with my current group. All the mistakes that can be made, has been made by me….
2.
The parental consent thing. Regardless, we are hmongs and hmong parents will want to know what you're doing with their daughters. It does not matter that they're over 18 and can sign contracts etc... I completely understand this, but sometimes they will flatly refuse to let their daughter be involved because she is a "GIRL" and not a boy. OK..OK.. so I really do understand this, BUT I am tired of having to go ask the parents for permission not knowing what they will say or do.... I had to do that with some of my 3 Lub Tooj Npab actors. I would gladly do it again if the person is whom I really needed, but its just a pain in the butt. Because essentially you're basically telling the parents that as long as their kids step through your doors, they are your responsibility and if anything happens to them on your watch then you're in for it with them.
Example....I had to have all my AV kids parents permission to have them signed on board. I had to go personally to meet the parents and explain to them what i intend to do to "help" their kids, but still some of them refused....lol.... I was practically begging them to let these kids sing/act for me (never mind that they were all over 18). But I did it because we were a legitimate company and I needed the parents blessing to do it. SOOOOOO....that is why you will see me or the production managers always with them...bitching...(well I like to call it coaching...lol..)at them and following them around at all their events. Its not because we want to follow them...(come on ..we're old and tired...who wants to go following a bunch of kids around.....and especially to parties...
If I don't book AV to play at parties, I would never step into one. Loud thumping parties just give me a headache....lol)...but its because we've promised their parents that nothing was going to happen on our watch..so we're keeping that promise. And the parents know that we keep our words because they see us with the kids at all times. It takes a lot of work to get the parents to trust you..especially when you're all complete strangers....and all my kids are virtually strangers to me...and to each other when we all first met. So you can imagine the parents concerns.
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Last but not least...the BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND issue……. Everything is great until they come along. ..SO…if you're a singer/actor, It's better if you're free from any attachments. I have witnessed the rise and fall of many a great singers/actors because of the girlfriend/boyfriend issues. Believe me…I’ve seen it all. Some stories…you won’t even believe.
Like for example...one of my kids ..we went on a very well heard Hmong radio station to do an hour long interview ( I take my work seriously...so if you roll with SEG you better be prepared to have your faces plastered all across the country as well as radio spots when necessary). Some had girlfriends/boyfriends while others didn't. After the interview, The ones that did not have girlfriends/boyfriends escaped the interview unscathed while the ones that had them had huge issues with their perspective partners after we got off the air. The reason why??? BECAUSE they did not claim that they were taken by that certain person...lol... it was incredulous...they got into a huge fight over it , but it was really stupid because my kids could not have protected themselves anyways because the host complimented and asked questions but never gave them a chance to respond properly.So if the host praised you on your good looks or beauty and mentioned that there will be a lot of gals/guys who will go crazy for them , what are you as an actor/singer to say...."thank you of course", You can't just jump in and say.."oh..yea by the way...I have a girlfriend/boyfriend"... Also..when they have a bf or gf, they tend to lose track and end up screwing over their producers. Thats why not many hmong producers (the ones who are serious anyways) are willing to shell out time, money, and effort on these kids. I've spoken to one too many hmong producers who's got burnt (me included) on this issue. So honestly, if I had to pick someone....I would prefer that he/she not be attached.
Fans will hug you...kiss you unexpectedly ( believe it or not, but this has happened to some of my kids) and so forth...and you can't be rude. So unless your bf or gf is extremely understanding...I am very reluctant to sign them on because I don't want to spend a lot of time, money and effort on this person only to have them walk because of the bf/gf thing.
I'm not saying that producers will not sign you if you have a bf/gf because its a case by case scenario...all I'm saying is that if you want to get into this business...its best that you're not attached. I've been there and seen it all...and it isn't pretty when you have to help these kids pick up the pieces after they've got into a fight with their significant others and cannot perform like you need them to...or after they've been dumped or did the dumping themselves...
True..I may be their producer/director, but most of the times..I also feel like their mother, their counselor and at times..babysitter...lol....
So yes...I would love to get a girl group together...but maybe one day when I feel that I have found the right girls then i will do it. As for now..I sit and wait...support AV...and groom my current unknown artist to take AV's spot once their album goes out. And to which I hope, that he will be as good as AV when he debuts next year.