Well, you do have a point there. But, thing is, if she just ignore those stuff & not react publicly - we must remember here, all the fans care about is for their idol & not even his mother or father or favourite grandmother, then eventually those mean things would die down when they get tired and move on to other stars. Sadly Tor could end up like my favourite Aum who got married & now reduced to low roles. I would feel a healthier respect for her if she did that, because the one who's name is in lights is the celebrity, everyone else in his life is considered a "hangers on". Putting that letter out is getting involved in the public's eye, in his celebrity status (before this who cares who this guy is), I was also thinking ehh? Why put yourself out for people to read? Is it because these days people if they don't put themselves out on instagram or social media then it's not enough? You want yourself to be known? Even if to strangers? If marriages can get divorced, registered can get deregistered, engagements be broken off, what's to say this relationship would last even if Tor didn't get famous? If my daughter did that (I don't have a daughter) I would probably scold her for being silly, why do you have to prove yourself to strangers who you'll probably never meet anyway? Fame is fleeting, enjoy your boyfriend while you can. It's what he feels for you that matters. I would rather she shut down her instagram & facebook temporarily & remove herself from reach of anyone. Then the public will wonder, and the smart ones will realised they've hurt someone so bad this is what has happened. One of the things we should realise is that fans are often not pretty people themselves; most could be homebound due to sickness or ugliness or fatness or a 90-yr old spinster/grandmother and the internet the only entertainmet they can get. So they bash people because it's the only escape to dreams they have. Tor's girlfriend should realised all these; unless of course she's elated she's the chosen one of the world's dreamboat and she wants people to know she exists in one way or another. She's probably being scolded by her mother right now for acting stupidly out of emotions instead of sense (like Tor reprimanded by Mam hehe).