totally agree with ya kt if ur talking 15, ur still a baby urself (i dont care what anyone says ur still a baby) another thing is so what if u are financialy stable.. still doesnt make u a good mom if ur not there for him/her right? There's a lot of factors to take in consideration..KawaiiTennyo said:no matter how young the mother is .. she will survive with her baby .. because once you become a mother you are FORCED to be responsible .. and have a mother mentality .. but it also depends on HOW young you're talking about haha.. because there's financial problems and such ..
[post="44077"][/post]
true true... its not really age... its maturity... true u might be forced into the situation... but does that make u a good mom? not really. money doesn't make a difference either... because it can't teach a kid how to talk, walk, and know their rights from wrong. its all the mom or the dad. i know some ppl in their 20s and they still can't really take care of their kid and leaves them with their parents. and exactly it means a whole lot of responsibilities. so if u still want to go clubbing every saturday, hang out with ur friends every weekend...or just having "fun" before ur kid turns 8 yrs old ....being a mom is not for u. lol i'm not saying u can't though but just an example.anti-hmong said:everyone's pretty much said it all...to be a mother...i don't care how young or old you are as long as you have the mentality to support yourself and your baby emotionally, physically and financially...age doesn't matter but to be realistic...if you're 14-16 or somewhere around there...don't kid yourself into thinking you can take care of a baby...first of all--you're still a child yourself and don't have the mentality, second of all--there's no way you can financially support yourself--let alone support yourself and your baby, third of all--being a mother means lifetime and total commitment to your baby...do you honestly think you'll be able to handle that???...knowing that while you're stuck being a mother...all your friends are out having fun and living the life that you crave
[post="44140"][/post]