I'm 100% agree everyone has their own opinions and have freedom to speech. But nitpicking & criticizing every single things he wears or to do seems hypocrite as he also has freedom to do so.
I am all for correcting him if he's done something wrong. Or maybe not correcting him but tips his mom what's going on.
My apologize I didn't mean to offend anyone. Who am I to judge anyway.
FYI trolls did quote your comments, generalized it as NYFC comment and twisted it "Even NYFC hate the way he dressed" Well I am an NYFC and don't hate it. He's very unusual indeed.
I read fans comments and I didn't see anyone bother about his earring. So when I saw people keep making long comment of it, I thought "What's wrong?" (maybe they don't like it at first as I do too... but I wasn't shocked and make statement or really discuss about my disliking).
I've seen a fan turned into hater that he/she was constantly criticized him everyday and after that left his mom malicious comments.
I just prevent the mental one really read to your comment and turn into him/her. I know some fans here know who am I talking about.
So carry on...
@sasuke06 I'll see you in next thread.
Have a nice day.
I do not quite understand your last 4 sentences. You said you’ve seen a fan turn into hater? I’m not sure what we can do about that or why that should be our problem. We can not control a persons sentiments .
Do you mean you just prevented or would prevent the mental one? Im not too clear on that either. But in any case why do we need to prevent anyone on reading fan discussions? We have nothing to hide. We are not saying bad or evil things. Maybe they think maliciously but that’s their thought, We can’t always try to say things to accommodate them. We’re simply posting comments in a fan thread.
As for the fans , I don’t think it was nitpicking and criticizing. Nitpicking is speaking of something perfect and trying to say something for the sake of saying something to take away from the perfection, . But because fans have different opinions making comments was unavoidable. . I also think you confuse the number of fans making comments on certain things, Because nadech and yaya has many events and it is continuous. Each day they have something, So they would wear different clothes. So one day for instance someone may say they didn’t like their outfit or clothing. But from what I have observed it never gone too long and those are different people(fans) expressing their opinions. not one person ranting for several pages. The last conversation was about This Earring. It’s understanble many didn’t like it because it is quite unconventional especially for those who belongs to countries where only female wears earrings. Fans who discuss this are normal. It is only about fashion and we all know it would not be something like that would make other fans dislike nadech, . It’s by no means hypocrisy...it is The same as some fans who would also express their anger towards the producers, directors , stylist when they don’t get what they expect from them. Would you call them hypocrite as well ?because in truth we should be thankful to producers that they hired NY. As for the directors or editors because even though some may think they’re bad. I’m sure they don’t want bad work. I’m sure they did their best. But fans because they want the best will discuss if they see something not good or wrong.. But I saw many criticism on them. Is that also hypocrisy? Or is okay to criticize because they’re only staff and not NY? For some fans they see their idols as people who will never make anything wrong . That is the impression it is giving off from people who gets annoyed about little things,.so comments from fans that doesn’t conform to their idea will bother them. Even though it’s honest and true. And again I was reading this thread too and I haven’t really seen over the top like what you call “nitpicking and criticism” from fans . especially about the earring and that’s what I feel is probably to me the “most” unconventional .
Also antis are antis, it doesn’t matter what NYFC do or say. They will still continue to say anti things cause that’s what they are, They can quote NYFC if they want but we’re still fans and they’re still antis..lol.. what it is is it bothers you -what the antis think about some fans who don’t like the earring... But it’s true. Some fans didn’t like it.
And there’s nothing wrong with that.. However the antis are called antis because they don’t like anything about NY.. so sure they will twist things and say “even NYFC hate it.” But we know that’s not true.
So why would we be bothered with lies.? Also I don’t really consider what they think as important,. Because if Nadech or Yaya didn’t pay attention to them, why should we
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They can say what they want if it doesn’t bother NY, it doesn’t bother me as a fan.
Also, I don’t really like monitoring antis, they’re not even celebrity. I don’t want to give them any importance. If they invent anything. People can always sue for libel. But again this feels to me as an overreaction.
The ones you say keeps nit picking would be the opposite of those who see things through rose colored glasses. But perhaps because who nitpicks wants everything perfect and can’t seem to have anything perfect, the other see everything as picture perfect all the time. .but I think there should be a balance.