^And how do you know that?
This debate can go on forever until someone is proven wrong. I still recommend her to take the DNA test. Btwn, how in the world would she know how to do a DNA test on her own lmao!!! I'm sure she would bring it to the doctor herself. Why would she pay the doctor to fake the test, when she will be needing that money more to support her child. This is exactly why Annie no longer wants Film to take a DNA test because people like you are forcing him into accepting this child if it is his, she doesn't want that for her child. She already has accepted that Film denied her. I am pretty sure Annie is pissed off. And if you're saying that she will intentionally do it, then do you think Film's boss be paying people to give Annie a negative view on her? Like I said, she should just do and force Film to sign a contract that if the baby is his, he has no right to take the child away from her. He denied the baby already.
Well, how did you expect him to respond rather than saying "fellow human being" when he doesn't love her and have any emotional connection/feelings with her? Of course he's gonna seem distant & vague about it when he refers to her because he doesn't want people to have a misconception like he had a serious relationship with her. Yes, I think it's really foolish and stupid of Film to have casual sex with girls he doesn't consider much feelings for or wanna be serious with, but I'm sure Annie is just as guilty in this act as he is. I'm just saying the way he reacted was understandable and I don't see why people should really criticize him about it when it's been shown he tried to be supportive the best way he can, even if it's not 100% support (since his heart isn't 100% with her).
Really, I think as much as it hurts Annie that he says these things and not wanna be in a relationship with her, she should just take the test rather than not do it out of spite & bitter feelings (or fear) whatever her reasons are...it just makes her look like she may be hiding something. I do wanna feel bad for her...but for some reason, due to her own reactions from this, I'm just a bit skeptical as to what is really the truth. At the end of the day, I just hope an innocent child isn't being used as an excuse to tie a man down. That's really shady. For her own sake, it's in her best interest and the baby's to do the test and verify that she is telling the truth. I'm sure there's options where she can make Film sign a contract he won't take the baby away from her as someone mentioned, and she can still be the only parent if she really wants to be. But the test will just prove that she is genuine, because I rather believe facts than just assuming things and putting a person down in the process. All I've been seeing is a lot of hate on Film's side when Annie is just as irresponsible and suspicious as he is. At the moment it's just "my words against yours" and I find it ridiculous how a majority of people will trust a woman's side of the story more than the guy's when both claims are yet to be proven true.
Anyway, I don't wanna argue back and forth about it lol. People are gonna have their opinions, I just hope one day the truth will be revealed and whoever that is lying will suffer the consequences of their actions.
WoodyMorning 21Sep10 pt1
Tee-ka-yu his eyes are so big! :wub:
Film already didn't allow anyone to think he was serious with Annie the moment he said "I was intimate with her, but we were not boyfriend and girlfriend." (That statement has become a hit among Thai people. That statement and "a fellow human being" Don't become intimate with a man who only sees you as a fellow human being. Hahaha.) You don't have to love or care about someone to simply say "I helped her financially because she and I were intimate for a while, and there's a high possibility that she was pregnant with me, so I wanted to help her even though I wasn't sure I'm the father" or something along those lines. LOL. It would've made him appear more gentleman-like. saying you were supporting a pregnant woman just because she's a fellow human being is ridiculous because 1.) you didn't deny being intimate with her and 2.) you admitted being intimate with the woman for a while. so many people find it incredulous that a man would support a pregnant woman if he didn't think she was carrying his child. i think that's why many people had a difficult time comprehending his word choice and statement. like i said, it was either a poor-written script by RS or just plain unwise and hurtful statement on Film's part.
Regardless of paternity, Film will do fine. RS will not easily let him go. He can still make money for the company. He will still have work to do to earn money for him and his parents. He has been working all this time while Annie hid herself. So financially, Film is much more stable. Annie didn't earn any money when she had to hide herself.
I think Annie will eventually consent to the DNA test because of the pressure. Or if she waits until her son grows up, it will be kind of like Marsha's case. when Guy was younger, there was a rumor that he wasn't Nui Ampon's son. Marsha and Nui didn't care at all. Now that Guy's grown up, those rumors died down because everyone can see that he's almost a duplicate of his dad's image. LOL.
in Thailand, even if the DNA test proves someone's paternity, the mother is still the only lawful parent. She can deny the baby's father's involvement. that's why more and more people support Annie to do the DNA test. maybe she wasn't aware of her rights. now i think she knows that she will not lose her child no matter what. if the test proves negative, she will have to accept the consequences and go on and live her life as she planned before: to just be a single mother who has to raise the child on her own without Film's involvement.
^yes, Guy's definitely a duplicate of his dad lOl
Sarna3, I understand your view, but please refrain from name calling.
That's very hypocritical of you to say "some people just so abusive towards 1 party blah blah blah.."Sorry for my name calling but some people just so abusive towards 1 party because they know that the other people deserved what he had done....
That's very hypocritical of you to say "some people just so abusive towards 1 party blah blah blah.."
So what exactly are you doing right now, talking down on Film's side and assuming everything Annie says is true? So you aren't being "abusive towards 1 party"? lol
I'm just being objective and looking at all perspectives of this, not being biased like you are when you don't even know what's the truth. You can have your opinion and I can have mine, what's your right to call me a stupid ass? Because I'm not gonna believe things I read/hear without proof & facts? You really needa learn how to have a discussion in a thread without having your panties in a bunch. I love having dicussions with opinionated people, but too bad it usually doesn't end very enlightening because emotions get in the way & people get so childish.
Whatever the situation of Film & Annie's dilemma is, the verdict is still the same. She needs to get that paternity test, otherwise she is as distrustful as Film is. And neither you or your countless insults will rectify her position.
And I am a female, and certainly not a biased illogical one who attacks people just because they don't agree with you.
Of course, I already know & understand the importance of being responsible for one's own actions, I think everyone here agrees with that. But my point is why immediately criticize the guy's part and praise the girl like she's such a victim when she could be lying herself? It can go either way, yet you defend one side as if what they say is completely the way it went down...when there could be many dynamics to the truth. Like listen to yourself, you personally already assume Film IS the father when there is no proof. Maybe Film is indeed the father, but who are you or anyone to already assume and criticize him for not "taking care of his own flesh & blood" when he doesn't even know if it is his own flesh & blood? Can we be logical here instead of letting our personal emotions/woman-feelings get in the way of what's right for everyone? I understand you probably naturally don't care about the guy's side of the story, most people usually just stand up for the female's side, but I'm just trying to balance out the perspectives here. Because, really, its unfair to just assume the woman's side is always right.I am talking as a mother, carrying a child for 9 months, if someone u thought u gave urself to is special but slap you in the face with words like, " someone I used to know or as a fellow human being" like he is so rich reaching out to someone who's in need of his helping, I be upset too, but I am not saying that Annie is 100% right, she has her wrong too and has make a mistake but as least she redem her mistake by keeping the child and not abort him...so she can show men of his world that used protection even a woman says she is already protected so there r such things as STD/HIV. If he was sincer, why don't he come out and tell the whole story of his side rather than hiding. If he is not ready to be a father as the Poj Anon says why don't he used his brain to used protection when he knows that the girl is in love with him or she might trap him by becoming pregnant,,,seeeeee, even though my sympathy with Annie but I am not siding with her....She knows that he doesn't love her but just out there to play....but the out come is at least she's got the baby out of all of this drama, that's the most beautiful thing in life, a human being u create with love in her part...but his part is a mistake....I rather Annie just forget about Film and live her life with the baby....stuff if he wants to save face or his fame, fame and status does not stay with u forever, but ur own flesh and blood will be there for u when u about to die....
Hahahahha oh u know the news getting over zealous! Num was a part of the cast in the series and some people/reporters want to make the ordeal more salacious by saying the baby looks like him and that he could also be the baby daddy lol! To me the baby looks all like Annie. I'm confused w the point of Annie refusing the DNA test while Film says he's waiting for results. Does that mean a test was already taken or did he just mean when the test gets done then he could furthur comment after the results?^what? Num? == what happen to may and num then? lOl this is getting way overboard for my head to think now lOl