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[ohitsnoyyy]

@sarn that's scary. I hope that your stalker stopped. Nothing is more scarier than always being on the lookout for someone. Being a girl is so stressful. We're always in constant fear of someone watching us. We can't even walk alone without being harassed. Guys don't have to worry about that!

@byebye OMG, before my friend got married, she actually wanted to get pregnant just so she can get him to stay! I'm glad she didn't get pregnant because that would have been a disaster, because he already has 2 kids from his previous girlfriend. If he didn't stick around for those kids, what makes her think he'll stick around for her?

I seriously don't understand how these women can think that bringing a baby into the world will keep a man around. Its just going to bring heartache, drama & probably more problems.

I totally agree with your quote about men/women marrying one another. I've seen a lot of women are always trying to change their significant other. Women want to keep their man locked up & away from their friends. It's really sad. I say the only change anyone should make in a relationship is a change for the better.

 

[sarN]

@ohitsnoyyy , it ok b/c i file a restrain order a little over a month ago after he came into the shop and destroy mostly all my tattoo supply . we have camera , so everything was vdo taped & i show it to the cop . crazy huh? he never got over me . even when i was gone for 5 years . he said i ruin his life but it's all in his head. he created a fantasy of us as a couple . his parent said he not stable. if something happen to me again & gone for a long time from the forum . there a possibility  that something bad had happen. 

 

[ohitsnoyyy]

@sarn holy crap! That gave me chills. I hope he isn't bothering you anymore. It's time to take some self-defense class, just in case! Omg, that's what I'm scared of. Some guys don't know how to take rejection, & I hear all these stories of girls getting murdered because they were turned down. If we say no to a guy, they call us "bitches, sluts, whore," yet they can't take no for an answer. Being a girl can be frightening.

 

[byebye]

A guy his too big of an ego to accept NO for an answer. Do you guys ever read stories on guys throwing acid on girls when they get rejected. Man, that is another crazy of evilness.
 
Ohitsnoyy...that is a mistake women makes all the time and for as long as there's a relationship. They think a baby will bring closure to everything...almost like a super glue to a heart but only this type of glue get things a lot messier. If a man doesn't want you, the best way is to move on. But there are times it is easier said then done. Because love seriously is one of the most dangerous emotion ever. People have killed and died for it. If you can find the "one" then it's worth the risk to fall in love but man if you find the crazy one...hell all sorts of things can happen lol

 

[sarN]

I never have any problem like this w/ other man , its just him b/c he in denial & waited for my return just to hear a rejection cause him to go crazy , he name call me slut, bitch, ect & scream his lung out . He kept saying is it b/c of my parents & ask did they brain wash me to hate him & what I'm saying is scripted by them . He create this non existed stories that my parent tell lie about him & that why I behave crudely to him. I did feel horrible that he waited 5 years b/c he cry & said all these thing about looking at my picture & driving by my house & shop hoping to see me again . Though he is crazy I do have feel awful to see him like that . My artists have to hold him down on the floor b/c he was kicking and punching the wall. I knew then I have to file a restain order . We.know.his parent & his mom cry non stop for us to drop charges b/c he might do jail time for the damage, batter& assault& threaten my parent life . I go to court next week but I might not show up & be content of court & drop the charges , I will seek legal question on doing so.

 

[byebye]

Awww....Sarn hope things turn out OK. When guys get emotional sometimes they don't know how to act. I think when he realized that he might go to jail it probably will wake him up. Good luck girl...
 
 
* I thought of something to watch and just happened to think of Pretty Woman. One of the most romantic fairy tale movie ever. Richard Gere was just perfect for this role. Only in a movie where a prostitute can get that lucky. A wealthy man picks you up on the street...falls in love and handsome/kind to boot. Seriously, why can't we normal girls get lucky as that lol

 

[ohitsnoyyy]

@byebye I've heard of that story. It's so sad to hear about those stories. It gets me mad hearing stories like that. Girls have to deal with enough things already, but we also gotta watch our backs even more now. If the girl says no, bullying her & harassing her won't make them like you. You're making them fearful of their life.

Oh the final straw for my friend was when she found out her husband got another girl pregnant. She told him she wanted him out of the house, & she wanted a divorce. He was so mad, he choked her. She managed to call the police on him & she had a restraining order put on him. That right there is not love, & I'm so glad she got out of it.

 

[sarN]

I like pretty woman! I saw fifty shade of 50 , surprisingly , i like the heroin b/c her character  seen convincingly   shy & naughty at the same time hahah

 

[byebye]

I love Richard Gere in Pretty woman, he's like perfect for that role or shall I say that role feel like it was written for him. Rich, smart, to the point and handsome. Where can you even find someone like him nowadays lol. Only in a movie can a man like exist and make woman go crazy. I have not seen 50 shades yet, but I do like Dakota though. She is not the prettiest out there as a movie star but there's something about her that makes her likable.

 

[sarN]

first time i saw her act in a movie . i love her smile it captivating. the movie is not that bad. there is nudity but mostly breast & butt HAHA  

 

[byebye]

Isn't that what most nudity is all about the butt/breasts. It is what most men likes anyway lol
 
The only problem I have with Dakota is her hair looks like it hardly gets washed. She went to the Oscar with a hair that looks like that. She is kind of off the wall a bit though. When she did this interview with Jamie her co-star. The interview was going nicely then she turned her head...That lamp is really nice. lol She easily gets distracted. But she's actually a funny girl.

 

[sarN]

  it not that bad at least it's better than  Kristen Stewart & Robert Pattinson hair style &  i do walk around w/ that same messy/wavy/dryout/nappy hair everyday , i love the spunky/rockstar /homeless style  :heart:  :heart: it make ppl want to buy me a comb lol

 

[byebye]

lol...some people can rock that look. When I see her, I don't want to buy her a comb I want to wash it out. Though, at some of her interviews she can put one to sleep lol. She can be dull if she's not comfortable but funny when she is. My hair is not thick enough to sport that oily, homeless look. Ever since I have my first son, it falls like crazy. My scalp itches no matter what shampoo or conditioner I used. I have used expensive ones too and does me no good. They say, when you have a baby hair falling is apart of it.
 
Us girls can never catch a break. The guys have all the fun and we get to keep the bad part. We gain weight, PMS, hormones changes, saggy breasts...I mean name it the woman gets to keep it while the men...whatever they enjoy it all lol

 

[sarN]

i have those thick amazon hair & my friend is jealous b/c she losing hair & said b/c im not married w/ childred . to have a man will ruin our body hahaha . what do man goes thur ? boob sagg lolll i still rember my grandma it was long enough to throw it over her shoulder. perhap you should see a specialist b/c i know a lady who lose hair b/c the spampoo is oily for her scape.

 

[byebye]

lol...my aunt had boobs that way. I don't know...my hair just falls easily. it gets oily so fast. I guess, my problem was earlier on I color my hair a lot and was not smart about it so it takes a toll on my scalp.

 

[sarN]

oooooooOoOo dye hair to much is baddd!! you bad girl , stop it ! most of my friend dye hair like crazy 5x  a year even back in HS & now everyone go blonde !! they are mothers w/ more than 2 kids not car model for goodness sake !! And flat iron too, hair looking like paper or film strip & they wonder why they losing hair . sometime let it naturally flow w/o blow dry. do you have long hair or short ? if long trim the ending it will grow faster ^^ mine reach my waist & black & dye it like 2 or 3 x my whole life , the last time was 10 years ago.

 

[cecilia]

sarN, dont' remember where I read your post about BELLE but omg, i love that movie! I'd married MR.D any day .. He loves Belle with his pure heart .. He sees her for her true colors and to me that was so beautiful about his affection for her :wub: I find him so righteous and so forth too. Any women would be lucky to encounter him once in their lives lol

 

[sarN]

Ooo i love the heroin (why do i always fall love  w/ the girl ?) she beautiful & a good actress https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbRz3MHM6rw ! I love the way the hero express his love thur his eye  :heart:  :heart: , clean & heart warm romance , no 50 shade of anything! i do love period drama &watch lots of BBC miniseries , the best one is "jane erye 2006" *sigh* mr.roastchest!
 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t28oY02EtFg

 

[byebye]

I always dream about a hero in historical drama lol. Something about them are so alluring and just sexy. So few men like them exist now. But wow, if I grew up in that time I probably just drool over them.
 
Sarn, I colored my hair more than 5 times a year. I get very bored with my color and it doesn't help I have early gray. I always sport short hair, I have a lot of pixie cut. A lot of people prefer me with pixie cut but I am going to try to grow my hair out now. All for my son, because he said he like me better with hair up to my shoulder. He told me the other day...mommy you look pretty with long hair, not too long though just up to your shoulders. So for him, I am determined to keep it that long lol. The last time I have long hair was when I was a high school.

 

[sarN]

pixie cut!! no way!l like one of your boys cut ? that too short ! grow back your hair girl!! i have to see this ! Let me see your hair & we exchange picture then  mine is the profit pic lol & there nothing wrong w/ black hair . If grey you worry about I have them since I was 2 years old -- before my parent not a whole lot but it's there . If you want to dye just do stripe color/highlight then NOT your whole hair/scale.