How would you feel?

[someone_in_hea]

Okay so my husband's friend just got married to a gurl that he didn't want to. He dated that girl, but he cheated on her and she found out so she came to marry him. He said he had no choice. I was being my husband and emailed him, saying congrats and everything. He said he didn't want to get marry but he had no choice. So then I told my husband and then my husband wrote to him telling him that he does have a choice and if he says No then the old people will kind of understand since the girl ran to him.

Well, he wrote back and ask my husband if he ever thought bout cheating on me while being married? How could he ask my husband that? We have a child together and he was one of my friend too. I am so shattered and disgusted how men are these days. You know if you think about cheating on someone then get a divorce first so that innocent person won't be in as much pain as when they find out about your ass cheating.

But anyways, I waited for my husband's response and he told that cousin that he thinks about my feelings and his. Like for instance if i was to do it to him, he will be hurt, so in that case if he did it to me, I will be hurt too since we are all human being that have feelings.

 

[mokka]

It'll bother me a lot because it would really make me question myself about it. For instance, if the situation is like yours, I would want to ask my significant other to tell me how he would responds to the email. And depending on the answer, I could be happy or feel insecure.

But from reading what you wrote, about it, it seemed your husbands do care about your feelings a lot...

 

[YM_gurl]

Okay so my husband's friend just got married to a gurl that he didn't want to. He dated that girl, but he cheated on her and she found out so she came to marry him. He said he had no choice. I was being my husband and emailed him, saying congrats and everything. He said he didn't want to get marry but he had no choice. So then I told my husband and then my husband wrote to him telling him that he does have a choice and if he says No then the old people will kind of understand since the girl ran to him.

Well, he wrote back and ask my husband if he ever thought bout cheating on me while being married? How could he ask my husband that? We have a child together and he was one of my friend too. I am so shattered and disgusted how men are these days. You know if you think about cheating on someone then get a divorce first so that innocent person won't be in as much pain as when they find out about your ass cheating.

But anyways, I waited for my husband's response and he told that cousin that he thinks about my feelings and his. Like for instance if i was to do it to him, he will be hurt, so in that case if he did it to me, I will be hurt too since we are all human being that have feelings.

Wow! what a loserrr friend of your husband & yours!!!

i say, he is an ASSHOLE! let him marry the girl he don't like. LOL

At the same time, i know how you feel. it is wrong for him to ask your husband that
rhetorical question. Men will be men, they will play their games. (some of them)

i will be hurt too if i was you but i won't think much of it, because he is only a friend who
still wants to play.