My ideal "L" would be someone like this:
Tall
Fair of skin since I'm fair skin (No offense, but don't like dark)
Black hair
Dark mysterious eyes
Muscular
Smart as in street-wise and Scholarly
Deep sexy voice
Knows how to please me, but still be arrogant enough to argue with me from time to time
Protective of family, friends, lover
Aggressive & Possesive
Must like to read
Know how to dress (I dislike men who wear baggy street clothes---prefer nicely dressed men)
Must and I mean this is a MUST, HE must be Dominating in the bedroom
Daring to try anything knew
Must love to travel since I want to travel
Must want Kids, but not to many!!!!
Able to provide $$$
That's for all, but I'm sure there will be more added to my list!!