Ok well I need help, I was thinking what I am going to do is it wrong? Here's my story.
Well I am going to visit my bf out of the state alone at first I was not planning to tell her and have my 3 best friends cover for me, but then I felt bad for hiding this from my mom and what if something happen and they don't know where I really am, so I decided to tell my mom the truth and now she is not letting me go. I will be traveling alone and I told her when and when I will leave and come back, at first she was kinda ok with it but the next day she told me I cannot go because it will be a disgrace to my family. And that I should listen to what she is saying and not go. I understand where she is coming from but the reason why I don't want to listen to her about me not going is because i am 20 years old I have been listening to my mom all these years that I never did anything without her permission. I always ask her first before doing anything and now I think I am old enough to make my own decision I did tell her too but she does not understand. So I was wondering what I am going to do is it wrong?
Well I am going to visit my bf out of the state alone at first I was not planning to tell her and have my 3 best friends cover for me, but then I felt bad for hiding this from my mom and what if something happen and they don't know where I really am, so I decided to tell my mom the truth and now she is not letting me go. I will be traveling alone and I told her when and when I will leave and come back, at first she was kinda ok with it but the next day she told me I cannot go because it will be a disgrace to my family. And that I should listen to what she is saying and not go. I understand where she is coming from but the reason why I don't want to listen to her about me not going is because i am 20 years old I have been listening to my mom all these years that I never did anything without her permission. I always ask her first before doing anything and now I think I am old enough to make my own decision I did tell her too but she does not understand. So I was wondering what I am going to do is it wrong?