vilasaeng said:
1. Well if you're not an islamic religion how do you become one without marriage?
2. How do Muslim's families view girl who had a past and a child(ren)?
3. In Muslim the girl have to convert in Islamic and also the guy if they marriage to a girl... what if guy who marriage an islamic girl want the girl to convert into his religion... Are there going to be a problem?
4. How far will a father goes to forbid his daughter to marriage if the above was "no way my daughter is converting...ect"?
5. What are the Islamic rule for girls and dating a Muslim?
6. When do the Ramada start? I know I could find this on the net!
7. How strictly do you follow the Ramada?
8. I don't know if I'm correct... But in the Koran it say "There's no God but one God, Allah." Doesn't Allah mean God?
9. What is the Koran teaching?
Thank you for trying to answer my question to the best of your ability.....
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those are a lot lol.... ok ill try to answer.
1-u dont need to marry a muslim man to become one. its very easy to become a muslim. all u have to say is (with firm belief in ur HEART) "there is no god but Allah and Muhammad is his (last) messenger"...in arabic is "la ilaha ila Allah wa Muhammad rusool Allah."
2-as muslims, we know that a new convert is a blessing in our Ummah (muslim community) so we/the family do not look at her past negatively if she has done sth bad. the past is the past. if one does look at it bad, then it is at a personal level, not a religious level.
3-Ok...Muslim men can marry girls who are already muslim ORRRR "People of the book"--meaning, Christians or Jewish girls because Islam is the third Abrahamic religion of God, Abraham being the first to start this monotheistic religion.
As for the Muslim women, they can ONLY marry men who are muslims, not others. not even "people of the book" bcz children and family names go throo the man's lineage. u get it? so it will be a big problem if the muslim girl marry a nonmuslim man. it would break the lineage. this is also part of christianity and jewish religion where the lineage is carried throo the man, not just Islam.
4-r u talking about the father of a nonmuslim? if that is so...i don't know. it is at a personal level. please be more specific on Q.4 so i can answer u correctly without confusion.
5-Islamic rules for girls are the same for guys. Obeying God, meaning his laws through reading/understanding the Quran. As for a girl dating a muslim...well, let me just tell u this. It is wrong and unethical in Islam for Muslims to date. dating is a renovated ideology created and brought up as the world gets modern. We respect getting engaged, then marriage.
6-It depends on when Ramadhan starts. it doesnt start at the same month each year because the Islamic calendar is Lunar-based...meaning we determine from the moon and each year...it moves a few days forward...this year, ramadhan started at Oct. 4th and ended Nov. 2nd i think.
7-there's no strictness in ramadhan. if u have good faith in Islam, u will understand the significance in fasting on this month of ramadan and when u have that understanding, u will not even think of the strictness. there's so much more to fasting than just givin up food.
8-Don't get confused with the word "god". "there is no god (notice, the 'g' is not capitalised so it isnt a pronoun) but one God, Allah (now this 'g' is capitalised to emphasize the oneness of GOD, who is Allah---Allah is his name. God is not the name of God....this word is from Greek origin. we all say god nowadays to understand as a higher being, per se.
9-The teachings of koran? maybe u meant the teachings of Islam. it generaly and basically teaches peace. the word "Islam" (the name of the religion) can mean peace but it actually means "submission"...we're submitted to Allah, our creator who created us and all things, including universe. the word "Muslim" (the title given to a person whose religion is Islam) means "submitter". we are the submitter of Allah. we do, as our duties, what he tells us.
Islam is such a beautiful religion. Ofcourse, through the lying medias, they portray it in such a bad image where people get the idea that Islam and Muslims are all about terrorising and war-causing. that isnt true----and it isnt right to do that.
if u have further comments or questions, feel free to ask again. im glad that you asked.