nobody likes rejection and i think this situation finds you becoming less and subordinate to a relationship that probably won't last,,, so why in the hell would you maybe give him something like a video he will use to prove he's above you!!! the fact is you should do things you feel comfortable with and not because you are intimidated into becoming less a person for someone else!!! get a grip girl and find your independence and live life for you and create bonds with someone who respects you and does not try to make you less then they are...
ps. weird shit is just that weird shit and you should choose to do it for yourself and not be intimidated into doing something you are not comfortable with because if you do you are less then him!!!