Kina
Dubsteppin'
I have come to the recognition that most people marry within their own ethnicity. Nothing is "wrong" with it in terms of the marriage itself. But the results are unjustified. If you analyze it carefully, discrimination [can] occur because of marriage within the same ethnicity, which can lead to racism, but of course, it doesn't occur solely because of this experience---but this is the subject of this topic.
Reasons as to marrying your own people of the same cultural background may seem a sufficient enough explanation, but is it really enough? Thai men wants to marry only Thai women. Desi men wants Desi women. Arab men wants Arab women. Mexican men wants Mexican women. And the list goes on and on. It is understandable that marrying ones own race/nationality will detract the issue of cultural shifting/shock, but it isn't logical enough. Can you see how discrimination can arise? It's from the unappreciation of other people's culture, whether it be the individual self or the individual's family.
Let's get personal besides viewing it in a global outlook. My aunt was going to marry a Hispanic man. Even though he made a moderate/below-moderate amount of money, his character and qualities are representations of eligible and content marriage and suitable husband. Unfortunately, my aunt chose to marry a Laotian/Thai man. He was a nice man but had a heart of stone and his role of being husband isn't worthy. He is known for belittling people, subtly. She regrets marrying him and can not divorce because now they have a child together.
That, my dear Sarnie brothers and sisters, was an example of the downfall of same racial/national marriage. Not all ends up this way, and I am not speaking about happy or sad post-marriages but about the possible outcome of what it can and has already began to proceed towards racial discrimination.
Who agrees? Any comments or opinions? Any pros or cons towards it?
Reasons as to marrying your own people of the same cultural background may seem a sufficient enough explanation, but is it really enough? Thai men wants to marry only Thai women. Desi men wants Desi women. Arab men wants Arab women. Mexican men wants Mexican women. And the list goes on and on. It is understandable that marrying ones own race/nationality will detract the issue of cultural shifting/shock, but it isn't logical enough. Can you see how discrimination can arise? It's from the unappreciation of other people's culture, whether it be the individual self or the individual's family.
Let's get personal besides viewing it in a global outlook. My aunt was going to marry a Hispanic man. Even though he made a moderate/below-moderate amount of money, his character and qualities are representations of eligible and content marriage and suitable husband. Unfortunately, my aunt chose to marry a Laotian/Thai man. He was a nice man but had a heart of stone and his role of being husband isn't worthy. He is known for belittling people, subtly. She regrets marrying him and can not divorce because now they have a child together.
That, my dear Sarnie brothers and sisters, was an example of the downfall of same racial/national marriage. Not all ends up this way, and I am not speaking about happy or sad post-marriages but about the possible outcome of what it can and has already began to proceed towards racial discrimination.
Who agrees? Any comments or opinions? Any pros or cons towards it?
