OMG !!! I read everyone's reply !!!
Well, all I have to say is... you're all RIGHT!!! there was no wrong fact to it!
Sometime, you have to keep in mind how fortunate you are to be here and getting an education that could help support you. And know "English" well enough to sustain a better life. Yes, those youngy lady will learn the modernize american way eventually and that's when they'll leave their old husband and possibly their own children to "who knows what..."
It's sad how family are torn from it. It's even harder if it's your very own family. I have to praise them and hope that they'll not hate, but forgive. It's hard, but if you don't than you'll just be bitter and full of grudges. Let it go so you may focus on your own life and make it better for your ownself.
Alot of these young ladies don't know that they're being exploited and they want to be stupid for it. Sometime it comes with security too and mental threat and distress. I totally agree that it's their ticket to the US, but yet it doesn't end there. Life is much harder!!! (esp. seeing those single ladies off to club when you're craddling your baby and poking your old man... LOL)
Anyways, it really does erks! me too!
However some relationship like that does go well... like someone said, if the guy had no other engagement or attachments... there shouldn't be any problem to it... even if he's a 35+ old single fart...
But OMG!, how desperate and gullible are those laos/thai women be??? Like any other guys from there, every GUYS living and breathing on this earth would say anything to get into a woman's pant/dress... even just for that moment.