Ok, i'm really shocked that a family friend decided to get a divorce from his wife after a 20 yr relationship. He has 2 kids one 16 and one 13 yrs old. Within that week of divorce he immediately married another woman. Apparently she is pregnant too. So did he cheat on his wife during the marriage? His job requires him to travel a lot, which means he doesn't come home for some nights. His excuse for the divorce was his mother not getting along with his wife. I think it's a lot of bull just to divorce for that reason. He could have just been honest and said he was a cheating bastard. So who's to blame? The man or his wife or the woman he had the affair with. I just feel bad for his kids, they have to deal with 2 major events, a new stepmother and a nasty divorce, not to mention having to choose between mom or dad. I say the man and his new woman is too blame, the woman knew he was a married man but yet still managed to steal him away, she could have just stopped seeing him but no she had to pursue him. The man was a good family friend, a real nice guy who loved his kids, yet he had the guts to do this. So who do you think is at fault?