Here is my current situation...but I'm gonna start with a little background...
I've been friends with this girl for 2 years now...she claims that I am her best friend...we are currently roommates and I thought everything was fine...unexpectantly, another friend of mine emailed me what she found...emails of my roommate complaining and talking shit about me...here's what happened...
My computer crashed so sometimes I would go into her room to use her computer...a few days later, I was desperately in need of a computer so I went to use hers, but I couldn't log in...she changed her password and blocked the guest account...later that night, I asked her if she changed it...she said she had things in there that she didn't want me to see...so I asked her to put up the guest account...she said she'll talk to me later about it, but that never happened...my other roommate offer me his computer cause he was always at work...so I've been using his computer since...
In her email, she claimed that my sister and I were downloading hella stuff into her computer and we thought that she didn't know about it...she said that I was taking advantage of her and stepping all over her privacy...that I had nerves to ask her to put up the guest account...that I was inconsiderate cause I didn't ask her to watch dramas with me...and that it bothers her cause I just walk into my other roommate's room like I own it...her boyfriend was also pissed at me too, for the dumbest reasons...she said that things are different between us now and there is definitely tension going on...
When I read it, it striked me hard cause I had no idea this was going on...since I always let her use my stuff, I thought it would be ok for me to use her stuff too...her family visit very often and I treat everyone like family...they take over my bathroom and I even offer them my bed when I wasn't home...sometimes they'll use my things and I wouldn't find out until later...but I was ok with it...my sister is pissed about the whole situation too...she always buy food for everyone and let my friend use anything she needs...when she cooks, she cooks for everyone...
So now...I really don't know what to think of her...she would always say, "sure, go ahead, use anything you like..." but now she's making such a big deal out of it simply over me and my sister using her computer...
I've been friends with this girl for 2 years now...she claims that I am her best friend...we are currently roommates and I thought everything was fine...unexpectantly, another friend of mine emailed me what she found...emails of my roommate complaining and talking shit about me...here's what happened...
My computer crashed so sometimes I would go into her room to use her computer...a few days later, I was desperately in need of a computer so I went to use hers, but I couldn't log in...she changed her password and blocked the guest account...later that night, I asked her if she changed it...she said she had things in there that she didn't want me to see...so I asked her to put up the guest account...she said she'll talk to me later about it, but that never happened...my other roommate offer me his computer cause he was always at work...so I've been using his computer since...
In her email, she claimed that my sister and I were downloading hella stuff into her computer and we thought that she didn't know about it...she said that I was taking advantage of her and stepping all over her privacy...that I had nerves to ask her to put up the guest account...that I was inconsiderate cause I didn't ask her to watch dramas with me...and that it bothers her cause I just walk into my other roommate's room like I own it...her boyfriend was also pissed at me too, for the dumbest reasons...she said that things are different between us now and there is definitely tension going on...
When I read it, it striked me hard cause I had no idea this was going on...since I always let her use my stuff, I thought it would be ok for me to use her stuff too...her family visit very often and I treat everyone like family...they take over my bathroom and I even offer them my bed when I wasn't home...sometimes they'll use my things and I wouldn't find out until later...but I was ok with it...my sister is pissed about the whole situation too...she always buy food for everyone and let my friend use anything she needs...when she cooks, she cooks for everyone...
So now...I really don't know what to think of her...she would always say, "sure, go ahead, use anything you like..." but now she's making such a big deal out of it simply over me and my sister using her computer...