it's all a thing about respect. 7000 is not that much from 5000. I think the set rule of only 5000 is stupid. I mean if the grooms side is going to pull a cow and not pay 2000 more then forget them. I know that some circumstances are different like sometimes the groom's side is poor or something you know there's always a way around it. just don't get marry yet or save up money or something.
this is what my dad said, it's like when he asks for the 7000 dollar it's only for tradition almost all of that money he's going to be giving it as present to the daughter and son n law and use some of it for the wedding. so when you think about it, it's just like you're paying for your own wedding. refusing to pay the amount that the bride's side asks for is like a slap in the face. plus my brother's like you have the balls to go ask their daughter for marriage you might as well have the balls to pay the full price too don't chicken out in the end and refuse to pay the price.
for me I wouldn't even have to speak up cuz when I get marry I'll make sure my future husband know the full price that he's going to be paying or we can just have an american wedding or something. But I'm not going to get marry any time soon. only 20 years old man and when i get marry I have to be financially stable too so yea kinda feel sorry for those who got marry young though.
this is what my dad said, it's like when he asks for the 7000 dollar it's only for tradition almost all of that money he's going to be giving it as present to the daughter and son n law and use some of it for the wedding. so when you think about it, it's just like you're paying for your own wedding. refusing to pay the amount that the bride's side asks for is like a slap in the face. plus my brother's like you have the balls to go ask their daughter for marriage you might as well have the balls to pay the full price too don't chicken out in the end and refuse to pay the price.
for me I wouldn't even have to speak up cuz when I get marry I'll make sure my future husband know the full price that he's going to be paying or we can just have an american wedding or something. But I'm not going to get marry any time soon. only 20 years old man and when i get marry I have to be financially stable too so yea kinda feel sorry for those who got marry young though.