Yeah I agree, I think some of the mom's make it worse when they do that. I think the daughters have no choice but to side with their mom but it really does bad for them when they get dragged into the problem. It happened to Mint and now it looks like Esther's mom is doing it too.
I don't think Esther's mom understands that you can't force someone to be someone else's koojin it doesn't work that way. Usually people become koojin if they have good chemistry (usually the best) and if they become popular with fans. they don't become koojin because the n'eks mommy says so lol