High value men are not realistic in terms of what they represent. I don't consider them high value unless they come with the entire package. I understand where you are coming from, but just the mindset alone can't be high value. There's no value in a broke man that has other qualities and doesn't have the financial needs to support anyone. Money can't bring happiness, but it can make one comfortable. Even decent money with inflation isn't much to write home about anymore.
I know someone that dates a rich man, like rich where they walk into a Rolex store and buy whatever and not flinch...but the man is in between as far as moral goes. She said, she would be with someone like him then to be with a man that struggles to provide...because what worth is a guy with a great mindset and all if he cannot provide for basic needs. His mindset alone can't put food on the table. Nowadays, a high moral mindset isn't taking you anywhere when people are worrying about the next paycheck. A woman will settle for a high value man (financial security) than a high moral man where you have to work to get anything or anywhere.
That's the reality of the world today. I am not referring to you as you have your type and what you want. This goes to majority of the women. Where high value are not based on looks, high morals or whatever it is outside of money. A guy will never ever be consider high value regardless of other characteristics if money isn't 99.9 percent of who they are.
That is my point. Who determines it.
You do....therefore why go by just anyone standards .?
So you want a guy who is rich, fit...tall...loyal...ect...
That is unrealistic....get a dog
A realistic high valued man is...loyal..good moral, mindset, makes decent money and can take care of you and your family. This is a true valued man.
My friend found it. He loves only her...loyal..family man...ect...he makes good enough money for them..their family...they are able to go on vacations. ...ect...
You settled for a rich man...and know what you're getting into..that is on you...
Point is know what you're getting into...
Don't have a standard of those Chad guys and expect loyalty .
If that is what you want. Go for it....but don't whine and complain you have no love or loyalty.
Again SOME women.....
I feel as long as you know what you want and is getting Into.
Don't whine and cry about it...when that is what you choose.
If they want a rich man....don't expect loyalty....you're good with that, good for you....just don't complain about lacking the other things when that is not your criteria
I don't need a man to provide for me...I need a partner with similar goal and mindset. I can and been earning my own money.