So agreeing with you ladies @mc @Malee @fresh @Zoe. Here is the only place I've ever been and posted. I don't feel comfy in others where posts can be strong, harsh. Here its a posted with love, with appreciation, for sharing thread, everyone speaks the love language and enjoy Yadech in congenial surrounding, for that I am very thankful for all you ladies. Fresh there is a Nadech thread if it helps for Yadech's solo project. It must be bad Malee for you to feel so dampen. I'd agree with you if visiting others the subject matter should be whatever the thread is about, its basic courtesy so as not to create tension or don't read them, cause frustrations, heartache. Those other threads are created because people who visited love the pairings, have their own discussions and will be guided since its their territory, misinterpreted posts will be thrashed and Yadechers termed childish and descriptions we do not like or don't agree with.