ok well my bf and i have been dating for 1 year and 5 months now. he is away for college out of states since june and we havent seen eachother since then and the only way we keep in contact is IM. so we IM every night for 3hrs and over the weekends he have families there too so he visits them and we dont chat on friday night until monday. he always say his college is having a game and that its his cousins bdays they drink and blah blah blah. i really want to trust him but sometimes i feel like i dont. and that he may be cheating on me. sometimes when we chat he is always chatting with this girl that he "thinks" is his cousin and he enjoys chatting with her more than me. i feel like he is selfish. so help me! am i thinking too much?