eh, i guess if i don't answer to this thread, it'd be odd because i face the long distance relationship battle also.
i too, am dating someone in thailand, and i live here in the states, it's been a few months into the relationship, long distance sucks when you long to hold on to your loved one when you feel like you have no one in this world. but anyways, the relationship is strong, and i do believe it's more to it than love, it's a lot of trust and honesty. my bf jokes around a lot about not trusting me but he does [well, unless he just jokes about it, but it's real, well i'm sure he does wonder what i really do] but then again, i've changed many things so he'd "trust" my behaviors more. i've been a bit more on the half and half also. i trust him, but i've also doubt him bacause of various things such as people's words. but i know, i know, i shouldn't let people's crap bring me down, but i guess it does sometimes, especially my parents.
other than that, i'm gonna see him in 5 more months. though we both wish it was earlier than that but it's impossible and for the best is to hold on tight to what we have now. i don't think he would start crap with me because i will not tolerate crap. lol if you know me, i'm not such an submissive person and do not like handling oppressive people. so best of all we balance, if i lack something he tries to tell me i do and if it's reasonable i'll consider it.
ya long distance relationships stinks, but who's in the position to judge besides those in it? -_-