Both Matt & SK deserve each other. I dont like both their personalities. SK seem like a narcissist to me. He only thinks of what will make him happy ( at the moment) . When he tires of things, he moves on. As for Matt, why would someone with her for 10 years cheat? Obviously, it was suppose to be a stable relationship. Either something changed or someone got bored/tired of the relationship. Maybe it wasnt moving forward. I think its her ex. Matt is how old? Maybe he wants to get married and she still doesnt? I remember reading some article that shes leaving ET to get married. But that was years ago and shes still here. Maybe the guy got tired waiting. Its possible he also found someone he likes more. Then when Matt learned he did this, shes off course upset, because thats more than 10 years, how dare he did that to me reaction, so breaking up is her decision. I understand i probably would have done the same. But based on her ability to make wise decisions, she probably didnt even think anything out. Eg the reason of why it happened nor consider the amount of time she invested in that realstionship. She probably just ended it no questions asked. Then she realized at her age , shes single again and know she can’t invest emotionaly that long in another relationship again. So she tried to jumped to another one and let it progressed fast. I think SK is a smooth talker and may even be really good at courting girls, doing and saying things you want to hear. When you just broke up with someone thats your vulnerable time. And it doesnt help when youre a bit dumb about people. So when a smooth talker met a dumb brokenhearted person. Thats a recipe for success. As fot Aff, maybe she did want her family together back then and just making SK sweat , to regret what he did and punishing him for that. But because Matt came into the picture. Thats became impossible. But as a person with concience, you know this man has a family. I would avoid him, so the door remained open for him to go back to them. But thats if i am conscientious and not too blinded by my own heartbreak and too focused on myself to find happiness right away after my breakup.. She seem to want to have another realtionship rightaway to take the place of the old one. And usually thats not wise. Because she didnt give herself time for herself. To clear her thoughts and recenter. So this might not be the kind of man she wants, but she doesn't know..lol.. however, in time characters does becomes unveil.