Anonymous<3
sarNie Oldmaid
@People Let's make one thing clear. I'm an open minded and mature fan who doesn't hate, bash, or bring down Bie and Noona as an onscreen pair just because one of my favorite actresses, Mo, is dating Bie. I'm not jealous that Bie and Noona are an onscreen pair. In fact, I SUPPORT them. Can you say the same about Bie in regards to his personal life? Probably not...unless he's dating who YOU want him to date, which is Noona. Only immature fans can't separate work from personal life. I can separate work from personal life and as a true fan of Bie's, I support Bie both with Noona as an onscreen pair and with Mo as his real life girlfriend. I don't go around bashing Noona or saying that "she brings Bie down". Because I realize that their interactions together are purely for entertainment purposes. I ALSO know that they're good friends in real life, and I, as a mature fan, have absolutely no problem with that. He can be acquainted with anyone in and out of the entertainment industry, work with anyone in lakorns, and date anyone and I will still always support him. Those who bash Mo simply because Bie chose to date her and not his onscreen sweetheart are immature.
I've said it before, but I'll say it again: no one has brought Bie down except his own fans. His fans choose to be narrow minded about who he dates and that's what has brought him down. There's no proof that Mo has "dragged Bie down". That thread you posted is purely dedicated to his fans who can't accept that he's happy with someone else, and they want to bash Mo and find as many reasons as they can to hate her. There are no real facts that Mo is "dragging Bie down". :rolleyes1: Do you truly believe that if Noona and Bie were together, there wouldn't be any problems either? Again, you must be living in an ideal world. Every relationship has its problems. Every relationship is "bumpy". Don't speak as if you're personally a part of Bie and Mo's relationship. No one knows how their relationship is because they've been forced to hide it from the public since some of their fans can't be mature and accepting of who he's dating.
Who wants to keep it private and who wants to make it public? Are you inferring that Mo is only after Bie's fame? As a hater of Mo, maybe that's what you would think. As for me, being a BIG fan of Mo who's followed her VERY closely, I know she's not like that. If anything, Mo is perfectly fine with where she's at in the business right now. You don't know this, but she never aspired to be an actress in the first place. Her dream was to become a chef and she has stated that she plans on pursuing that dream. Which would possibly mean, she's going to leave the entertainment industry once she's able to, to open up and manage her own restaurant. So in the end, she wouldn't be receiving any more or as much attention as an actress anymore. And does that matter to her? No, it doesn't. Because Mo has never been about "popularity" and "being famous". How do I know all of this? I follow her and watch all of her interviews. You're only speaking about her from a hater's standpoint. Mo has never once spoken about her relationship with Bie publicly because she doesn't care about "being Bie's girlfriend". Bie is just a person to her, a very special person that is. She doesn't see his fame, money, or whatever other materialistic thing you seem to think she's after.
And let's say Mo was the one who wanted to make their relationship public...is that such a bad thing??? How would YOU feel if you had to keep your relationship hidden? How would YOU feel not being able to see your girlfriend or boyfriend whenever and wherever you wanted to? Maybe if Bie's fans were more open minded and accepting of who he's dating, he could be in an open relationship with that person without being afraid of losing his fans or being afraid that his girlfriend would receive hate just for being his girlfriend.
According to you, Bie and Mo have a "bumpy" and "disastrous" relationship. Well, perhaps that's due to the fact that there IS so much hate, pressure and stress from the public, from his OWN "FANS", put on them that they just can't have a normal and open relationship. :rolleyes1: I applaud Mo for being able to put up with it and stay with Bie for this long. If it had been me, I would've broken up with Bie a long time ago, no matter how much I loved him. A relationship that I had to hide and a relationship where the people closest to my significant other (a.k.a. Bie's fans, who can practically consider themselves his family), are constantly hating on me because they don't think I'm good enough or suitable for him. How could one POSSIBLY have a healthy relationship with that kind of an environment? There's so much negativity put on ONE person that it would make that person feel like crap. I'd become depressed. I'm sure you've experienced or at least know of people who've experienced this kind of situation. You want to be with that person you love but their family and friends hate you so much and they don't approve of you, whether it's because of your looks, status, etc. It's EXTREMELY painful. A relationship is already complicated as is, but when there's absolutely no one supporting you from his or her side, that just makes it 1,000 times more difficult to even TRY to have a stable relationship. But I guess when it comes to Bie and public figures in general, people could really care less. And there's no sympathy given, because they're only there to entertain us and to satisfy US...even in their personal lives. Who cares if they're suffering? They're not humans, they don't go through the same things we go through. :rolleyes1:
You continue to say that Mo is the cause of Bie losing his fans. What proof do you have of that? Was his performance in lakorns, stage shows, etc. and his personality onscreen visibly worse as a result of him dating Mo? And is that why fans have stopped following him? :rolleyes1: Because as a fan, you would only care about his performance as a singer and actor. And you'd only hope that he was happy with whomever he was dating, regardless of who it was. The truth is that, fans didn't just start hating Mo after they speculated that her and Bie were having problems. Those fans have hated and antied Mo SINCE THE BEGINNING, since HEARING about a possible relationship between them. And at that time, wouldn't they have only been at the early stages of their relationship? Yet fans were already hating on Mo because they'd wanted Bie to be with Noona. Which goes back to what I said before. In the end, Bie only lost his fans because those fans were never true fans to begin with. As a TRUE fan, you'd support him regardless of who he was dating...just as long as he were happy.
Also, Bie and Mo's relationship has never been made public, so how would you know how Mo treats Bie and vice versa? I could easily say that Bie is the one dragging Mo down and that he's the bad influence on her. Now THAT wouldn't be fair would it? I have no proof and you, as his fan, wouldn't be happy with me spouting such nonsense either.
Before Mo got involved with Bie, no person has ever had any reason to dislike Mo. She didn't have the most fans, but she definitely didn't have this many haters either (if any at all). Ever since the news of Bie and Mo came out, all I've seen and have continued to see from a good amount of Bie's fans are comments about how they don't think Mo is good enough for Bie, or pretty enough, etc. I can guarantee you that if Bie broke up with Mo today and started dating someone else tomorrow, and it STILL wasn't Noona, those same fans who once bashed Mo, would go on targeting and finding reasons to hate the next girl Bie was dating...as long as she wasn't Noona. :rolleyes1:
To other Bie and Noona fans, I'm not saying that all of you guys do this. I know there are a good amount of you who are completely supportive and understanding of Bie, whether it's in his professional life or his personal life. But I've also witnessed plenty of negative, hateful and unnecessary comments targeted towards Mo from some of his fans...to the point where I now feel the need to speak up. I'm truly sorry for contributing to the past two pages with posts which were unrelated to Jad Ruk. Now that I've had my say, peace. Continue to support Biena in Jad Ruk.
I've said it before, but I'll say it again: no one has brought Bie down except his own fans. His fans choose to be narrow minded about who he dates and that's what has brought him down. There's no proof that Mo has "dragged Bie down". That thread you posted is purely dedicated to his fans who can't accept that he's happy with someone else, and they want to bash Mo and find as many reasons as they can to hate her. There are no real facts that Mo is "dragging Bie down". :rolleyes1: Do you truly believe that if Noona and Bie were together, there wouldn't be any problems either? Again, you must be living in an ideal world. Every relationship has its problems. Every relationship is "bumpy". Don't speak as if you're personally a part of Bie and Mo's relationship. No one knows how their relationship is because they've been forced to hide it from the public since some of their fans can't be mature and accepting of who he's dating.
Who wants to keep it private and who wants to make it public? Are you inferring that Mo is only after Bie's fame? As a hater of Mo, maybe that's what you would think. As for me, being a BIG fan of Mo who's followed her VERY closely, I know she's not like that. If anything, Mo is perfectly fine with where she's at in the business right now. You don't know this, but she never aspired to be an actress in the first place. Her dream was to become a chef and she has stated that she plans on pursuing that dream. Which would possibly mean, she's going to leave the entertainment industry once she's able to, to open up and manage her own restaurant. So in the end, she wouldn't be receiving any more or as much attention as an actress anymore. And does that matter to her? No, it doesn't. Because Mo has never been about "popularity" and "being famous". How do I know all of this? I follow her and watch all of her interviews. You're only speaking about her from a hater's standpoint. Mo has never once spoken about her relationship with Bie publicly because she doesn't care about "being Bie's girlfriend". Bie is just a person to her, a very special person that is. She doesn't see his fame, money, or whatever other materialistic thing you seem to think she's after.
And let's say Mo was the one who wanted to make their relationship public...is that such a bad thing??? How would YOU feel if you had to keep your relationship hidden? How would YOU feel not being able to see your girlfriend or boyfriend whenever and wherever you wanted to? Maybe if Bie's fans were more open minded and accepting of who he's dating, he could be in an open relationship with that person without being afraid of losing his fans or being afraid that his girlfriend would receive hate just for being his girlfriend.
According to you, Bie and Mo have a "bumpy" and "disastrous" relationship. Well, perhaps that's due to the fact that there IS so much hate, pressure and stress from the public, from his OWN "FANS", put on them that they just can't have a normal and open relationship. :rolleyes1: I applaud Mo for being able to put up with it and stay with Bie for this long. If it had been me, I would've broken up with Bie a long time ago, no matter how much I loved him. A relationship that I had to hide and a relationship where the people closest to my significant other (a.k.a. Bie's fans, who can practically consider themselves his family), are constantly hating on me because they don't think I'm good enough or suitable for him. How could one POSSIBLY have a healthy relationship with that kind of an environment? There's so much negativity put on ONE person that it would make that person feel like crap. I'd become depressed. I'm sure you've experienced or at least know of people who've experienced this kind of situation. You want to be with that person you love but their family and friends hate you so much and they don't approve of you, whether it's because of your looks, status, etc. It's EXTREMELY painful. A relationship is already complicated as is, but when there's absolutely no one supporting you from his or her side, that just makes it 1,000 times more difficult to even TRY to have a stable relationship. But I guess when it comes to Bie and public figures in general, people could really care less. And there's no sympathy given, because they're only there to entertain us and to satisfy US...even in their personal lives. Who cares if they're suffering? They're not humans, they don't go through the same things we go through. :rolleyes1:
You continue to say that Mo is the cause of Bie losing his fans. What proof do you have of that? Was his performance in lakorns, stage shows, etc. and his personality onscreen visibly worse as a result of him dating Mo? And is that why fans have stopped following him? :rolleyes1: Because as a fan, you would only care about his performance as a singer and actor. And you'd only hope that he was happy with whomever he was dating, regardless of who it was. The truth is that, fans didn't just start hating Mo after they speculated that her and Bie were having problems. Those fans have hated and antied Mo SINCE THE BEGINNING, since HEARING about a possible relationship between them. And at that time, wouldn't they have only been at the early stages of their relationship? Yet fans were already hating on Mo because they'd wanted Bie to be with Noona. Which goes back to what I said before. In the end, Bie only lost his fans because those fans were never true fans to begin with. As a TRUE fan, you'd support him regardless of who he was dating...just as long as he were happy.
Also, Bie and Mo's relationship has never been made public, so how would you know how Mo treats Bie and vice versa? I could easily say that Bie is the one dragging Mo down and that he's the bad influence on her. Now THAT wouldn't be fair would it? I have no proof and you, as his fan, wouldn't be happy with me spouting such nonsense either.
Before Mo got involved with Bie, no person has ever had any reason to dislike Mo. She didn't have the most fans, but she definitely didn't have this many haters either (if any at all). Ever since the news of Bie and Mo came out, all I've seen and have continued to see from a good amount of Bie's fans are comments about how they don't think Mo is good enough for Bie, or pretty enough, etc. I can guarantee you that if Bie broke up with Mo today and started dating someone else tomorrow, and it STILL wasn't Noona, those same fans who once bashed Mo, would go on targeting and finding reasons to hate the next girl Bie was dating...as long as she wasn't Noona. :rolleyes1:
To other Bie and Noona fans, I'm not saying that all of you guys do this. I know there are a good amount of you who are completely supportive and understanding of Bie, whether it's in his professional life or his personal life. But I've also witnessed plenty of negative, hateful and unnecessary comments targeted towards Mo from some of his fans...to the point where I now feel the need to speak up. I'm truly sorry for contributing to the past two pages with posts which were unrelated to Jad Ruk. Now that I've had my say, peace. Continue to support Biena in Jad Ruk.
