Okay, I've been friends with my best friend for so long... for about 6 years. We're super close and we know each other's secrets. Both of us have strict parents so strict we barely hang out. I can't hang out with friends so it's hard for me to make friends. Plus, my parents think the ideal teenager doesn't need friends and just needs to succeed in school. My friend's parents are the same yet I believe they're more strict.
My friend has been grounded lately because she's been talking to a guy. My friend's brother has a girlfriend and her parents are fine with it but whenever my friend talks to a guy even if it's just a friend, they act like they slept together or something. It's just beyond. Also, the guy my friend's talking to is actually nice. He's kind and he actually sees her in his future. He's honest and he would never harm her. He worries about her just as much as me.
I haven't been able to talk to my friend recently since she's been grounded and her parents go on her facebook to see who she talks to so I can't talk to her on there. I went on email and emailed her. She replied back and then I emailed back only to see that her parents emailed me on her account. In the email, they were basically saying "if your friendship with our daughter starts to have problems with our family, then we ask you to stop it."
WTH is that supposed to mean? I have never thought of leading my friend into a bad direction. I'm always supporting her and cheering her up from her strict parents. I feel as if I am her only hope.
I tried calling her today but I knew that if I called, her parents wouldn't let me talk to her so I told my sister to talk on the phone. They just hung up when they heard my sister's name since they didn't know her.
Also, on facebook, my younger sister is friends with my friend's younger brother. My friend's younger brother has blocked my sister so now my sister is losing a friend because of me ... ??????
I feel like it's all my fault and I should be helping my friend but how. I can't even drive to her since I can't drive. I can't go to her house since she moved far away and my parents won't let me go.
The guy that's been talking to my friend knows her password so he went on her facebook and saw that she blocked me, him, and a bunch of other people that are friends with me and her. I'm pissed, super pissed. I also saw that my friend's mom posted a status saying, "Please help me get through my daughter's teenage years. Please."
I was like WTF? You're taking too much control of your daughter's life..
Please help me and tell me what I can do. I feel so useless and I feel like my friend is calling for my help. My best friend and I are planning to go traveling in the future -- all around the United States, to Korea, and to Thailand. I don't think I can see my future without her. She's my best friend and has been beyond a best friend. She's like my soul sister. She's like another parent. She's like a part of me that I can't lose.
My friend has been grounded lately because she's been talking to a guy. My friend's brother has a girlfriend and her parents are fine with it but whenever my friend talks to a guy even if it's just a friend, they act like they slept together or something. It's just beyond. Also, the guy my friend's talking to is actually nice. He's kind and he actually sees her in his future. He's honest and he would never harm her. He worries about her just as much as me.
I haven't been able to talk to my friend recently since she's been grounded and her parents go on her facebook to see who she talks to so I can't talk to her on there. I went on email and emailed her. She replied back and then I emailed back only to see that her parents emailed me on her account. In the email, they were basically saying "if your friendship with our daughter starts to have problems with our family, then we ask you to stop it."
WTH is that supposed to mean? I have never thought of leading my friend into a bad direction. I'm always supporting her and cheering her up from her strict parents. I feel as if I am her only hope.
I tried calling her today but I knew that if I called, her parents wouldn't let me talk to her so I told my sister to talk on the phone. They just hung up when they heard my sister's name since they didn't know her.
Also, on facebook, my younger sister is friends with my friend's younger brother. My friend's younger brother has blocked my sister so now my sister is losing a friend because of me ... ??????
I feel like it's all my fault and I should be helping my friend but how. I can't even drive to her since I can't drive. I can't go to her house since she moved far away and my parents won't let me go.
The guy that's been talking to my friend knows her password so he went on her facebook and saw that she blocked me, him, and a bunch of other people that are friends with me and her. I'm pissed, super pissed. I also saw that my friend's mom posted a status saying, "Please help me get through my daughter's teenage years. Please."
I was like WTF? You're taking too much control of your daughter's life..
Please help me and tell me what I can do. I feel so useless and I feel like my friend is calling for my help. My best friend and I are planning to go traveling in the future -- all around the United States, to Korea, and to Thailand. I don't think I can see my future without her. She's my best friend and has been beyond a best friend. She's like my soul sister. She's like another parent. She's like a part of me that I can't lose.