Share your Love Story

fantastic_27

''SMTown'
it was the 5th grade year, i didn't notice him, i did in 6th grade for after school but when we were in the same 5th grade class i didn't think we will fall for each other. Then one day he just talked to me so i talked back, we talked about how that person was and how he/she is ugly, we laughed played joke, thats when i knew i loved him, but 7th grade need and i didn't get to tell him the chance i loved him. But then it was 8th grade year, we weren't in the same class so sad.... so i decided to tell my friend then my teacher put me on blast, now everyone knows, i was so embarrass, so he then knew and teased me so i was like fuck you, later on the week, he kissed my cheek i was so HAPPY, then i told my friend if i should kiss him back but i was to shy, he then asked me out on november 12,2011 i was so happy, later on i did kiss him, he then took me to the new years on my 14th birthday, and said he loved me, then he kissed me on the lips, i told him i loved him, we would txt and call and FaceTime, we get each other gifts for christmas, he gave me a doom and i gave him a 1 pound chocolate bar and on valentines i gave him a box of chocolate and a card telling him i love him, he gave me a pillow pet, then on his birthday, i gave him a good card and a kiss, i loved him so much until i had to ened it with him because my family knew i had an boyfriend, i was so sad, he didn't show anything, but he been telling my cuz, that he was so mad and sad that he wanted me back, but he didn't tell me, he said to her that he thinks he doesn't even exist to me anymore. Of course, why would i think that, you were my everything. He asked to dance with me one more time before we go, i then said yes, after that dance was graduation, i was so sad leaving al my friends and even him, i hugged him one last time, wanting to remember that hug forever. Tommy Vue may not be by my side, but he remains a great love in my heart forever. If i were to tell him one last thing before i die it would be, "I love you forever, you were my first and will always be my first, i wish to be with you in the next life, i love you".

Base on a true story... Till this day i still love him, to love forever... he told me LOVE is a powerful word, don't ever let it go.
 

narkrakdin24^^

sarNie Adult
it was the 5th grade year, i didn't notice him, i did in 6th grade for after school but when we were in the same 5th grade class i didn't think we will fall for each other. Then one day he just talked to me so i talked back, we talked about how that person was and how he/she is ugly, we laughed played joke, thats when i knew i loved him, but 7th grade need and i didn't get to tell him the chance i loved him. But then it was 8th grade year, we weren't in the same class so sad.... so i decided to tell my friend then my teacher put me on blast, now everyone knows, i was so embarrass, so he then knew and teased me so i was like fuck you, later on the week, he kissed my cheek i was so HAPPY, then i told my friend if i should kiss him back but i was to shy, he then asked me out on november 12,2011 i was so happy, later on i did kiss him, he then took me to the new years on my 14th birthday, and said he loved me, then he kissed me on the lips, i told him i loved him, we would txt and call and FaceTime, we get each other gifts for christmas, he gave me a doom and i gave him a 1 pound chocolate bar and on valentines i gave him a box of chocolate and a card telling him i love him, he gave me a pillow pet, then on his birthday, i gave him a good card and a kiss, i loved him so much until i had to ened it with him because my family knew i had an boyfriend, i was so sad, he didn't show anything, but he been telling my cuz, that he was so mad and sad that he wanted me back, but he didn't tell me, he said to her that he thinks he doesn't even exist to me anymore. Of course, why would i think that, you were my everything. He asked to dance with me one more time before we go, i then said yes, after that dance was graduation, i was so sad leaving al my friends and even him, i hugged him one last time, wanting to remember that hug forever. Tommy Vue may not be by my side, but he remains a great love in my heart forever. If i were to tell him one last thing before i die it would be, "I love you forever, you were my first and will always be my first, i wish to be with you in the next life, i love you".

Base on a true story... Till this day i still love him, to love forever... he told me LOVE is a powerful word, don't ever let it go.
:teary:...... So heart touching.... :cry:
Maybe one day you two can reunite. I wish you the best.
 

lakornsrok

sarNie Adult
wow all you gals love stories soo touching and sweet. hmm weird because i also thought I shared my story already. hehe well here goes my "love" story <3
 
It was the year of 2010, my sophomore year of high school. I had to transfer to a different school because the current school was far from the house where I recently moved. It was going to be my 2nd semester and sadly I had to transfer to avoid the difficulties for my mother. But I am very glad I got to meet him my sweetheart now. School started around mid February or so for me and I was a loner at school. The schedule was different too not like my old school there were even and odd days. I didn't know there were such thing as breaks, I hated that school. Later on I found out that I had to shuttle meaning that I had to ride the bus to the other school since there are two schools connected that are at different locations. My school was Central East but I had to shuttle to West for one of my classes. I was more annoyed shuttling. On the first day that I had to shuttle, I walked to one of the buses and asked the bus driver which of the buses go to West and she replied all of them go there. I walked and sat down in the bus, I noticed a guy sitting close to the front with super spiky hair but didn't pay any attention. I got off the bus and went to go look for my class since it was new to me. Days later, one of my friend who used to go to my old school came up to me and asked if any guy named Nathan came and talk to me. I told her no and asked her why. She told me that she was wondering only and it made me wonder why. I didn't know that my answer was going to come sooner. One day when I got off the shuttle bus, someone called my name. I thought I was only hearing things but I turned around and saw him. he walked next to me and I was going to walk the other way but he told me to go the way that he goes. I listened to him and I remembered there was a mud puddle and a bush. I walked between that and he asked why I took him there. I told him he was the one who took us there. He walked me to my class and then left to his class. After my class I had to go catch the bus again for the shuttle to go back East and I saw him. He took the 2nd bus while I didn't follow him and took the 1st bus. The next day when I was going home he saw me and said bye to me. I said bye to him and left to go on the bus. Later on, he started to sit next to me when we shuttle to go to west and days I would sit with him to talk about things. Then one day finally, I sat on the 2nd bus with him not knowing why I did. He asked for my number and I told him to only text me no calling since my mother doesn't allow it. He told me he won't call me but he did one time when I had a question about the game Harvest Moon LOL Not long like after 2 weeks od knowing each other, he texted me something. Yes it was fast and it was a question that I thought it would be. He asked if I would go out with him lol I couldn't answer i was speechless LOL i talked to my sisters about it and they told me if i liked him then of course. I liked him and thought he was cute so I told him the next day i will give him an answer. We had to shuttle that day and he asked me and I told him to give me time and I will tell him at the end of the day so then we saw each other again and gave him the answer. I told him yes and he asked me if i was sure lol I can tell his face that he was very happy. I was excited yet scared at the same time since I never had a boyfriend before. There our adventure started, we both graduated high school together and now still going forward. Even though we have our ups and downs, we know how to sort it out and how to fix it. We learn from our mistakes and our love grows stronger. I am happy to be with him and can see myself spending my lifetime with him in our future. We have been dating for 3 years going to be our 4th year this year. I love our adventures together and can't wait to see what awaits for us!<3 :heart: :clap:
 
oops forgot Nathan is my boyfriend after all LOL yes he was a stalker knowing my name haha he got info from the same girl that asked me LOL also he is the spiky hair dude in the bus. Funny thing was he said he saw me during the time when I asked the bus driver about the buses. LOL soo embarassing ! HAah
 

lynnyang

sarNie Adult
I guess it's been awhile since I talked about this history of mine, but I guess it wouldn't hurt to share it here... And I do apologize if it's too long or boring because I quit writing love stories a long time ago.
My story is your typical "puppy" love. I will not be mentioning his real name so I'll call him Nicholas instead. Nicholas and I knew eachother since we were 5years old, we were friends not close friends, but just friends who runs in the same crowd. We have never liked each other as in having feelings. We were just two people who just knew each other. In my eyes, from growing up together, I always thought he was one of the best guy because he was your one girl kind of man, he was very kind, caring and he wasn't a cheater. He dated one of my close friends before and it didn't work out because he was just a rebound for her. I find it sad because he liked her very much. Later on, he ended up liking another friend of mine, but she rejected him. Somewhere in junior high school, I started finding myself paying close attention to him after hearing from our English Teacher announced that Nicholas was injuried during his soccer game. After that, I somehow messaged him on Hi5 (it was famous then) asking him how he was and wishing him to get well soon. Surprisingly, he replied back that he was fine and thanks for caring. My feelings for him was still mutal, he was just my friend. Fast foward, to senior year in high school, along Hmong New Year After Party, my little sister pressed him to ask me for a dance and Nicholas ended up doing just that. He and I ended up being partners for 2 nights dancing. After those two nights, our feelings as friends were no longer mutal. I ended up ignoring him in school (I'm the typical girl who gets shy when the guy you have a crush on is saying hi to you whenever you pass by him and playing hard to get. Yes, he has to work for it because I am worth it!). My little sister asked me why I keep ignoring him and though I didn't say she just knew that I liked him and that he fits exactly the description of men that I liked. So being the "cupid" she was tried to get us together. The day before my birthday we had a club meeting and me being the VP who held the meeting together all the time and being the last to leave, my little "cupid" sister made everyone leave first and had him be the last to leave with me. So Nicholas ended up staying behind with me and he wished me a early happy birthday. Somehow he and I ended up chatting on MySpace (Thank You MySpace because talking on the phone was going to be a problem with my parents) and he admitted to me that he liked me more than a friend and I told him I felt the same. The very next day, he and I hung out at school and being the typical high schoolers, we became the new topic where everyone will start asking if we were dating. On the day he was prepared to ask me out, his dummy friends would drop hints, as if I was dumb enough not to know! Nicholas and I went to sit at the bench behind the school cafeteria where I taught him how to fold paper hearts because he has never done it before. He took my right hand and said something along the line, if I was willing to be someone who he'll want to spend the rest of his life with, someone he wants to be serious with and in for the long run. I answered yes and from there we dated. We graduated high school together and went to the same college. Along in college, our relationship got really rocky because we were growing up, less time for each other, we were no longer in high school so he doesn't spend time with me as much as before. He started going out with his friends to party and clubs, I disliked it very much and I object everytime, I'm not a party kind of girl. I'm a laid back kind of person. We had our ups and down, I ended up breaking up with him 2 times that lasted only a day or so because he would call and we would talk it out and get back togther. Even though I was very naive, I knew he loved me, but probably not as much as I had loved him. After 3 1/2years together, I let him breakup with me since I did it the first two times already. We realized how different we were, I was a very laid back person, he was so outgoing it just didn't work. I couldn't accept the fact that he could keep stuff from me even though he knew it still hurt my feelings. At that time, being a coward I did not dare talk to him to have closure between us. Somehow, one night I phoned my little "cupid" sister who got married already that I wasn't able to let Nicholas go because he was my first boyfriend, first love and that he and I did talked about a future together. She told me not to worry and she'll take care of it for me. The next day, Nicholas and I decided to talk it out and being the naive I gambled with god that I'm sure Nicholas and I will get back together and that miracles do happen. I lost. Nicholas said he did loved me for the past 3 1/2 years, our relationship did mean something to him and  that I deserve a better man. I was at a loss for words and only cried. I watched him walked away without telling him anything I wanted to say. The best and right thing we have ever done for each other was letting go. I ended up being a little mess, a college drop out.
Somewhere between 2011-12:  Being another naive I text him asking if he still loved me, his words like a dagger to my heart that he loved me no more than a friend and that if his feelings for me do ever come back than its meant to be. I lost him him forever. I ended up dating a worker and used him as a rebound, the relationship lasted 2 weeks. I knew than that no one could replace Nicholas.
Present (2014): Though love is really beautiful and precious, you shouldn't throw away your future because of one person and don't depend on them so much. Be your own person, speak your heart out if it hurts and bothers you. If you love someone, just simply say it out, "I Love You!" And if you hurt someone and you feel so guilty, just apologize and say, "I'm Sorry!" Because life is happening so fast, the time for happiness is shorter than you could imagine. Appreciate the life you have now and love as if everyday is your last day, shall one day something happens, you would know that you have lived and appreciate every minute of it. The moral of this story, is that though sometimes you love someone so much that it hurts so much to be able to be put in words, you have to let go because holding on would only hurt you both. Don't ever bring an innocent victim in your life; use anyone as a rebound because it's no excuse to hurt anyone. Do I still love Nicholas? He is a memory.
 

awesomeMustaches

sarNie Hatchling
This sounds fun. :) so here's mine...
 
When I was in middle school there was this guy that I really hated, he was a constant pain in the ass as in like we would bicker a lot. Then when we we're in 6th grade he asked me to help him court my best friend (by the way she was his first crush since they were in kinder) so I agreed. During the time that I was helping him we ended up as best friends then during 7th grade I was still helping him court my other best friend. there was this one incident where I ended up punching a guy and that guy slapped me then my guy best friend just appeared infront of me and punched the guy that slapped me and I ended up liking my best friend coz when I was in trouble he'd always be there and he was the only guy that treated me like a girl coz I used to be one of the guys. Then of course I ended up liking my guy best friend. Since I didn't wanna ruin our friendship I didn't tell him and continued to help him. at some point my girl best friend almost fell for him so whatever I telling him to do was working! then like they stopped talking for some reason then my girl best friend ended up with her first and only crush. so my guy best friend gave up. so when we were in sophomore year I kinda drunk texted him that I liked him and after that weekend he didn't talk to me for 2 weeks and the first time he talked to me again was because he was asking for chocolate then like after that we drifted and then he got expelled. I still miss him specially now that we're so busy and I don't have time, his girlfriend is also clingy so yeah we can't talk to each other that much coz his girlfriend gets mad. but I don't like him that way anymore. I just really miss my guy best friend.
 
I didn't know we had this thread. Lol.
Well, here's mine:

Two years ago, my friend tried to set me up with her single boss, who a lot of women had a crush on. I've never met or seen the guy before so I said no. She went back to tell him I said no.
A year later, I apply for a job and bam! Turns out, he is the owner and he knows me... That's why my friend insisted that I check out the job and because I recently quit mine.
He asked me out several times before I finally said yes. Gave him a chance and we are now happily together...hopefully, for eternity.

I should write an FF about this. Lol. A lot like Aew and Krit's story in 3 Num, I know. Lol. I only realized that from a fellow AF member here not too long ago.
 
Here's 2 of mine love stories

1st one: I always had a crush on this guy in Middle school. I think he knows but just don't care because he has a girl already. I would do everything for him even homework and help him cheat on test until he got me in trouble and I stopped loving him for one year. But yes he and his gf broke up and he came to me so we dated for a couple if years the. His ex came back and he believed her so he broke up with me and went to her again. I was heart broken and wasn't able to let him go even after I graduated.

2nd one:
After being heart broken once I met another man who loves me and took care of me. He was the one who made me stop missing my ex and after 3 years of dating me decided to marry and yup we had a good life and we are having a child together. It's almost my due date. I have to thank this guy for giving me almost everything.
 

DreamerNut

sarNie Egg
I was always told that true love is seeing the person you love be happy, even if their happiness doesnt include you. I didnt get what it meant until now.

I knew this guy since college but we were not close or anything. Just peers that happened to cross each other's path. I did remember thinking he was an arrogant prick though, but i was too quick to judge. I didnt get to really know him until we crossed paths professionally. At first i was resistant but circumstances forced us to work together and really open up to one another. This arrogant prick actually turned out to be one of the nicest guys i have ever met in my life.

I didnt know when or how i fell for him. Perhaps it was because we spent too much time together? Or maybe it is because every time i look at him, i forget about anything else, as though time froze. It sounds corny and super cliche, but it really happened. Or maybe it's because he makes me want to a better person. I dont know. I still dont know. I fell for him like when people fall asleep: slowly at first and then all of a sudden youre dreaming and when you wake up, everything changes. All i know is that he was one of the best things that ever happened to me.

Too bad i was too afraid to fall. But fell i did and now i'm left broken. I still love you, and there's not a day that goes by where I don't wish that I could've had the guts to tell you just how much I did and still do love you. But you deserve better and I'm happy that you're happy. <3
 

littledummy

sarNie Hatchling
I like the sound of that "Share your Love Story" though I've never fallen in love or been in love but I did have a couple of crushes yet if I wish to fall in love I hope it would be something unexpected. Someone who'll be my first and my last.
 

bakaPX

sarNie Adult
My love story was a super complicated and long one. It's what you'd expect out of a Kdrama. It started about 2 years ago, at the end of my freshman year. My school's Hmong Club decided to take a walk to Hmong Village in celebration of the newly elected officers. We all went to Blueberry to get some boba tea and there was this guy, let's name him R. I overheard the Blueberry worker saying something like this to R,"Out of all the guys here, you're the best looking one." I turned around and took a look at R as I thought to myself,"Pshh! He ain't even all that." One month went by and we had our Hmong Club picnic the week after school ended. I forgot that R even existed until my cousin mentioned him saying that he went to school with her brother. I took a look at him as he sang with his older brother and this other guy but wasn't too interested.
 
Summer vacation came to an end and school just started. I had Biology first period with a whole bunch of my friends. In that class, one of my friend would always spazz about a guy to me. (Let's call her P) I didn't know who it was but I could care less since she was the type to fall really quickly for guys. R eventually came to add me on Facebook (probably cause I was the treasurer of Hmong Club) but I didn't really know who he was. xD One day Facebook told me that it was his birthday and although we didn't talk much, I still wished him a happy birthday through Facebook. The next day, P was spazzing again about the guy she liked. Turns out that the guy she likes was R, and not just that, but R sat right behind me in Biology. Of course, I never registered the fact that R sat right behind me since he was just a stranger(but also a facebook friend.) Lol. R and I started talking a bit as friends and I soon started dating this guy that I had a crush on freshman year but eventually broke up since I knew that I didn't have any feelings left for him. A few weeks went by and I was playing cupid with my friend and R. I started to get to know R more and soon found out that he just broke up with his girlfriend on his birthday since she was moving far away. :( I tried to tell P that R still had his heart for someone else and that she shouldn't move so quick. But knowing her, she never listened and continued pursuing him. Weeks went by and P was getting super obsessive about R. I was starting to get annoyed with how obsessive she was, from posting post it notes in his locker to wearing his sweater every single day cause she never wore a jacket to school, I just couldn't stand her anymore.
 
One day in December, P crossed the line. While borrowing R's phone to call her ride, R left to the bathroom and she took his phone home with her without permission. I was furious when I heard this. She wasn't even his girlfriend yet and she was already acting like that. Since R and I were practically best friends by then, I talked to him about this and found out that he doesn't like my friend. His heart was still set on his ex-gf or a different person. Knowing this, I told him to stop leading P on. He said that he did, but his words never goes through her head. As my friendship with R grew, I started to realize that he's my type of guy. Smart, caring, funny, patient, confident, charming, handsome, etc. I pushed that thought away since P still had a huge thing for him.
 
P eventually started to notice how close R and I were. She talked to me about it saying that I should just go for R since we both liked each other and she wants R to be happy. I wasn't sure why she was saying this since I knew/thought that he still had feelings for his ex and I had no intentions of dating him. The thing though is that it wasn't just P who noticed it, a whole bunch of my other friends and family also noticed the chemistry between R and I. (apparently I was left in the dark and couldn't even see my own situation) But after that talk, I analyzed everything that I did/felt in the past few months. I came to the conclusion that I did like R, but I denied that feeling because my friend, P, likes him. My friendship with R was growing, and so were my feelings. I read my horoscope one day since they're always so accurate and it said something like,"if you're unsure about something right now then question it and you'll find the answer." I thought about it and decided to take a risk. I asked R who he liked but he wouldn't tell me unless I tell him who I like too. So we set up a date on when we'd tell each other who we like. It was a Friday afterschool when we walked around. Both of us were being really stubborn with the topic of who we like so I finally muttered,"I like you." Except I said it too quiet so he didn't hear and said,"Fine, I'll tell you then. I like you." I was overjoyed upon hearing this and clearly told him that I like him too. xD
 
That Saturday, I was volunteering at Mall of America R couldn't join us since he had a funeral to attend. We both texted each other when we could, saying how much we miss each other. Besides that, I also took the 8 hour day to carefully decide on what I wanted to do. I didn't want to be a bad friend by dating my friend's biggest crush. But I didn't want to lose such a good guy either. I eventually came to the conclusion that if he asks me out in a week then I'll say yes. If he doesn't ask then I'll ask him. I also considered the fact that no one would accept this relationship and support us. I knew that people would talk about how bad of a friend I am. A week later, on a Friday again, R asked me to go to his locker after school. Of couse, I knew something was fishy but I went anyways. When I got there, he told me to turn away from him. He opened up his locker and took out a box of Ferrero Rocher and hugged me from behind saying,"I'm a bit late on this, but will you be my leprechaun?" I said yes of course, and we both decided to keep this a low profile until the following Monday when we had a Hmong Club event. There, we openly announced our relationship by holding hands. xD Towards the end of the day, we were having reflections on how well the day went. P said that it was a great day and she realized how it felt to have a family since her real famliy never treats her well. (But from what I saw, she just doesn't see how much her family cares about her) She was crying as she said this but there was more to it than just that. She talked to me a few days later saying that she was crying because of my new relationship and how I never told her anything about it. I just told her that I was sorry for not telling her. I didn't know how to say it knowing that she'll be utterly heartbroken.
 
Our friendship was going downhill while my relationship was going up. Not only that, but as I expected, everyone was talking about how bad of a friend I am. Hmong club members, people that I looked up to, friends who I thought were trustworthy, and people who I don't even know. Even though I expected it, I was disappointed to see how people really viewed me just because of this. But I wasn't going to let them stop me from my happiness. I risked everything for this relationship, I wasn't going to end it just because some people are too quick to judge. My frienship with P eventually got better even though we're not as close as we used to be anymore.
 
This month marks our 11th month anniversary, and I'm proud to say that I'm glad I stuck with my decision. We may have had our ups and downs but we always managed to fix it without having an argument. R was always there for me when I was feeling down. He's the sweetest guy I've ever met. He's the only one who has enough patience to be with me. It was worth getting to know him as a friend first. If it weren't for our friendship beforehand then I wouldn't understand him as much as I do now. It was a long and rough path but it's not ending anytime soon. :)

Also, the funny thing is that months before I started dating R, my brother's girlfriend told me about how she got into a relationship with my brother. She went through the same exact situation as I did. Lol. She probably influenced a bit of my decision. xD
 
P.S. R claims that he thought I was a fob when he first saw me Freshman year because I "wore dark make up" (I hardly ever wore make up) and was super tan from tennis. Lol! But he also thought I was cute and short. xP Apparently he started pursuing me some time after he broke up with his girlfriend but since I was dating someone else already, he backed off until I ended the relationship. Everytime I think about it, I laugh like an idiot. The person whom I thought wasn't all that turned out to be the one that I've been waiting for. I must have been extremely stupid to not realize my own feelings.
 

Maricon

sarNie Oldmaid
I never experienced being in a relationship but I fell in love when I was in high school. We're friends, until he found out from someone that I liked him. He avoided me and doesn't like being teased about it. But before we graduated from high school, he apologized and we made up. Currently he is still in veterinary school while I'm focused on finding a job.

Though I also have crushes here and there lol.
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
Aww. Make up as in Friend ? You fall in love too ? That's huge !! Ya' going hook up? I want a happy ending ;). My love stories are one side love , he love me but I did not return his love , I always left the guy heart broken in most case . The guys I like I can't win them..grr but the guys I'm not interested in, good lord , they are like flies buzzing in my ear lol.
 

Maricon

sarNie Oldmaid
Yes we made up as friends hehe. Though we don't have communication since I don't have his number, we went to different schools. We reunited at a high school reunion two years ago and we're good. Who knows what can happen nothing is impossible anyway, hoping we'll be able to find the love that we deserve. :D
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
Awww. Why didn't you persuade him? Why? If I love someone, trust me, I will chase after him like those Olympic race tracker , I rather face rejection than never try at all ---- and I had hundreds of rejection lolll my face is thicker than a pancake now.
 

Maricon

sarNie Oldmaid
I prefer a guy doing the first move than vice versa lol I still believe nothing is impossible though.

And I prefer to be in a relationship once I'm stable in my other aspects of life lol :D
 

Waffle

❤ BTS ❤
Aw these are so cute and better than some lakorns.

I met my boyfriend in 2012 in 9th grade and I didn't like him. A Month later he helped me with a class and then we started talking until May 2013 we became official. He is a different race, but is very open to learning about my culture and family. My parents love him a lot even though at first they wanted me to be with a hmong guy, but seriously they love him more than they love me.
 

Waffle

❤ BTS ❤
I guess it's been awhile since I talked about this history of mine, but I guess it wouldn't hurt to share it here... And I do apologize if it's too long or boring because I quit writing love stories a long time ago.
My story is your typical "puppy" love. I will not be mentioning his real name so I'll call him Nicholas instead. Nicholas and I knew eachother since we were 5years old, we were friends not close friends, but just friends who runs in the same crowd. We have never liked each other as in having feelings. We were just two people who just knew each other. In my eyes, from growing up together, I always thought he was one of the best guy because he was your one girl kind of man, he was very kind, caring and he wasn't a cheater. He dated one of my close friends before and it didn't work out because he was just a rebound for her. I find it sad because he liked her very much. Later on, he ended up liking another friend of mine, but she rejected him. Somewhere in junior high school, I started finding myself paying close attention to him after hearing from our English Teacher announced that Nicholas was injuried during his soccer game. After that, I somehow messaged him on Hi5 (it was famous then) asking him how he was and wishing him to get well soon. Surprisingly, he replied back that he was fine and thanks for caring. My feelings for him was still mutal, he was just my friend. Fast foward, to senior year in high school, along Hmong New Year After Party, my little sister pressed him to ask me for a dance and Nicholas ended up doing just that. He and I ended up being partners for 2 nights dancing. After those two nights, our feelings as friends were no longer mutal. I ended up ignoring him in school (I'm the typical girl who gets shy when the guy you have a crush on is saying hi to you whenever you pass by him and playing hard to get. Yes, he has to work for it because I am worth it!). My little sister asked me why I keep ignoring him and though I didn't say she just knew that I liked him and that he fits exactly the description of men that I liked. So being the "cupid" she was tried to get us together. The day before my birthday we had a club meeting and me being the VP who held the meeting together all the time and being the last to leave, my little "cupid" sister made everyone leave first and had him be the last to leave with me. So Nicholas ended up staying behind with me and he wished me a early happy birthday. Somehow he and I ended up chatting on MySpace (Thank You MySpace because talking on the phone was going to be a problem with my parents) and he admitted to me that he liked me more than a friend and I told him I felt the same. The very next day, he and I hung out at school and being the typical high schoolers, we became the new topic where everyone will start asking if we were dating. On the day he was prepared to ask me out, his dummy friends would drop hints, as if I was dumb enough not to know! Nicholas and I went to sit at the bench behind the school cafeteria where I taught him how to fold paper hearts because he has never done it before. He took my right hand and said something along the line, if I was willing to be someone who he'll want to spend the rest of his life with, someone he wants to be serious with and in for the long run. I answered yes and from there we dated. We graduated high school together and went to the same college. Along in college, our relationship got really rocky because we were growing up, less time for each other, we were no longer in high school so he doesn't spend time with me as much as before. He started going out with his friends to party and clubs, I disliked it very much and I object everytime, I'm not a party kind of girl. I'm a laid back kind of person. We had our ups and down, I ended up breaking up with him 2 times that lasted only a day or so because he would call and we would talk it out and get back togther. Even though I was very naive, I knew he loved me, but probably not as much as I had loved him. After 3 1/2years together, I let him breakup with me since I did it the first two times already. We realized how different we were, I was a very laid back person, he was so outgoing it just didn't work. I couldn't accept the fact that he could keep stuff from me even though he knew it still hurt my feelings. At that time, being a coward I did not dare talk to him to have closure between us. Somehow, one night I phoned my little "cupid" sister who got married already that I wasn't able to let Nicholas go because he was my first boyfriend, first love and that he and I did talked about a future together. She told me not to worry and she'll take care of it for me. The next day, Nicholas and I decided to talk it out and being the naive I gambled with god that I'm sure Nicholas and I will get back together and that miracles do happen. I lost. Nicholas said he did loved me for the past 3 1/2 years, our relationship did mean something to him and that I deserve a better man. I was at a loss for words and only cried. I watched him walked away without telling him anything I wanted to say. The best and right thing we have ever done for each other was letting go. I ended up being a little mess, a college drop out.
Somewhere between 2011-12: Being another naive I text him asking if he still loved me, his words like a dagger to my heart that he loved me no more than a friend and that if his feelings for me do ever come back than its meant to be. I lost him him forever. I ended up dating a worker and used him as a rebound, the relationship lasted 2 weeks. I knew than that no one could replace Nicholas.
Present (2014): Though love is really beautiful and precious, you shouldn't throw away your future because of one person and don't depend on them so much. Be your own person, speak your heart out if it hurts and bothers you. If you love someone, just simply say it out, "I Love You!" And if you hurt someone and you feel so guilty, just apologize and say, "I'm Sorry!" Because life is happening so fast, the time for happiness is shorter than you could imagine. Appreciate the life you have now and love as if everyday is your last day, shall one day something happens, you would know that you have lived and appreciate every minute of it. The moral of this story, is that though sometimes you love someone so much that it hurts so much to be able to be put in words, you have to let go because holding on would only hurt you both. Don't ever bring an innocent victim in your life; use anyone as a rebound because it's no excuse to hurt anyone. Do I still love Nicholas? He is a memory.
Making me cry @ work :sad6:
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
I prefer a guy doing the first move than vice versa lol I still believe nothing is impossible though.

And I prefer to be in a relationship once I'm stable in my other aspects of life lol :D
Aww. OLd fashion mind . There nothing wrong w/ women making the first move . You be surprise how easy man is HAHAH
 

Ms.Zoe

. : Lady Yue : .
I was like you, preferring the guy to make the first move but some men these days they don't make the first moves lol. Or they are afraid to be turned off :risas3:. You could make the first move but make it subtle :thumbup:.

I prefer a guy doing the first move than vice versa lol I still believe nothing is impossible though.

And I prefer to be in a relationship once I'm stable in my other aspects of life lol :D
 

Waffle

❤ BTS ❤
I didn't know we had this thread. Lol.
Well, here's mine:

Two years ago, my friend tried to set me up with her single boss, who a lot of women had a crush on. I've never met or seen the guy before so I said no. She went back to tell him I said no.
A year later, I apply for a job and bam! Turns out, he is the owner and he knows me... That's why my friend insisted that I check out the job and because I recently quit mine.
He asked me out several times before I finally said yes. Gave him a chance and we are now happily together...hopefully, for eternity.

I should write an FF about this. Lol. A lot like Aew and Krit's story in 3 Num, I know. Lol. I only realized that from a fellow AF member here not too long ago.
I thought about Ab Ruk Online, Anne and Peter. Too cute and you're lucky
 
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