Love is not like the movies, love is good and bad, so if you argue with your lover, does not mean the relationship is going down the drain, if your partner shows no affection as much as before does not mean the relationship should end, when you say Love you must be sure its everything! not just the good things in life, because good and bad come together like a coin that comes with heads and tails. what I notice about love is that you cant always be happy just cause you think or you are in love, but enjoy life anyways, now isnt that love? to enjoy your life overall? because that is what we all want right, to enjoy most parts of our life, and not feed our greed. but feed our love ones because we love them and we can let them know that or we can show them that. but I'd rather do both.