There's so many unanswered questions that I'm dying to know which I would never know. Here's my story....
I've been asking my friends about this guy who I work with and now I'm trying to put the puzzles together about it. I believe it started sometime in Nov. or maybe earlier cant really remember, and he's been working there for over a yr and never said a word to one another. He's very a quiet person he doesn't really talk much, when we go on our breaks and lunch he'll be with his cousin smoking, I'm there cuz I smoke too. Me and his cousin talk and carry conversations but this guy nothing at all. His cousin isn't quiet so we always got jokes to say to one another, which I thought it was nothing we just having fun. Since I don't know how this guys is, one day he started to make smart comments or say mean things to me, and of course I'm gonna ingore him cuz all of a sudden he's talking to me but in a mean way how am I suppose to take it, and plus I didn't have anything good to say or get even. It was going on for a lil while til one day we happen to go to lunch at the same time, while waiting to clock out he made a smart remark to me and one of friend said "dang you gonna let him talk to you like that? I bet if I said that to you, you would be mad at me" I was totally speechless all I did was have him this dirty a$$ look....and then he was mumbling "i'm just joking" by the way we did made eye contact at that moment, right when he said he was joking and that wierd smile he gave me, i kind of thought it was strange. I just left it alone didn't think anything of it. But he still continue to be rude and mean to me, which I thought thats how he is I just know him from work. Nope that's not how he is...he's just doing those things to me.
People who knows him say he's a nice person, which is hard to believe he's hardly ever nice to me. But there are times he can be a gentlemen. Which I think it's weird to see him in that kind of manner, he's one of those guys looks like they all tough. I think I'm weird myself, for taking his rudeness...yea he's rude when talk face to face when we're around our friends. I begin to know him more when he chat through email while we're at work but still it doesn't mean he's still nice but at times he can be. He's really a well kept guy he don't really talk much too and its hard to read the quiet one. Now thinking back on things...I beginning to think this guy got something on his mind but he's not saying it. Which I don't really like, I hate mind games and putting puzzles together about something like this. I been to 3 different occasions which he had invite me to go and hang out (group of friends too)...though at that time I didn't think anything of it, I went cuz I thought of him as a friend. Through out the night he'll do his things and stuff but I'll catch him looking at me, if I'm in another room or I'm outside he'll walk in and out and see what I'm doing.
So what is it? Is it what I think it is? Or is it just me thinking that is?
I've been asking my friends about this guy who I work with and now I'm trying to put the puzzles together about it. I believe it started sometime in Nov. or maybe earlier cant really remember, and he's been working there for over a yr and never said a word to one another. He's very a quiet person he doesn't really talk much, when we go on our breaks and lunch he'll be with his cousin smoking, I'm there cuz I smoke too. Me and his cousin talk and carry conversations but this guy nothing at all. His cousin isn't quiet so we always got jokes to say to one another, which I thought it was nothing we just having fun. Since I don't know how this guys is, one day he started to make smart comments or say mean things to me, and of course I'm gonna ingore him cuz all of a sudden he's talking to me but in a mean way how am I suppose to take it, and plus I didn't have anything good to say or get even. It was going on for a lil while til one day we happen to go to lunch at the same time, while waiting to clock out he made a smart remark to me and one of friend said "dang you gonna let him talk to you like that? I bet if I said that to you, you would be mad at me" I was totally speechless all I did was have him this dirty a$$ look....and then he was mumbling "i'm just joking" by the way we did made eye contact at that moment, right when he said he was joking and that wierd smile he gave me, i kind of thought it was strange. I just left it alone didn't think anything of it. But he still continue to be rude and mean to me, which I thought thats how he is I just know him from work. Nope that's not how he is...he's just doing those things to me.
People who knows him say he's a nice person, which is hard to believe he's hardly ever nice to me. But there are times he can be a gentlemen. Which I think it's weird to see him in that kind of manner, he's one of those guys looks like they all tough. I think I'm weird myself, for taking his rudeness...yea he's rude when talk face to face when we're around our friends. I begin to know him more when he chat through email while we're at work but still it doesn't mean he's still nice but at times he can be. He's really a well kept guy he don't really talk much too and its hard to read the quiet one. Now thinking back on things...I beginning to think this guy got something on his mind but he's not saying it. Which I don't really like, I hate mind games and putting puzzles together about something like this. I been to 3 different occasions which he had invite me to go and hang out (group of friends too)...though at that time I didn't think anything of it, I went cuz I thought of him as a friend. Through out the night he'll do his things and stuff but I'll catch him looking at me, if I'm in another room or I'm outside he'll walk in and out and see what I'm doing.
So what is it? Is it what I think it is? Or is it just me thinking that is?