boys advice

[LaLa23x23]

how do you tell if a guy likes you. like this guy..he's 24 and im 17...and i think its impossible that he likes me but he shows some signs. but i still tink its impossible

like he told me to be an ass model and he'll be my agent/boyfriend.. then the other day we were talking about something...and he said "just like becoming youre boyfriend...haha..because youre illeeeeeeeeegal" thats what he said. then he compliments me on being pretty, and he tells me that i can trust him cause he'll never do anyting bad to me.

i usually have this problem with trustingp ppl. i odnt trust ppl easily....but when i have a feeling that i trust someone its always right and i have the same feeling with him...and i told im that...so thats why he said that.

lol then we were tlaking about hjow i get cravings for chocolate and get bitchy when im on my rag. and he said "you know what i would do for you" and i said "what" he said "i would make you a hot bath a big chocolate cake, and a back massage" i was like whooooa..but im down for that lol

he's so hot. wanna see a pic of him?
he's trying to look tough here...

and right here..he's meditating..

 

[onestupidguy]

so your asking us if he likes u or not?

y dun u just ask him urself.. i think its easier..

 

[Rakniran]

he talk way too sweet. Sound too fake. He might just want to get in your panties thats why he talk like that. Guys age of 24 are usually like that. Watch out be very careful ,girl.

Yeah,I would ask him if,his interest in you as a friend or girlfriend then next step would be to go out on a date with him and take it step by step. Dont sleep with him til your 18 yrs old. Wait atleast a year before you decide to sleep with him after he have become your boyfriend.

 

[lalalek]

i agree mostly on what Rakniran says about him getting into your pants and so...but come on, don't sleep with him and then regret it....it wouldn't be worth it...
See i've been through this before...all in all it was just basically teasing...well for me...older guys seems to wanna joke and mess around...Don't like him too much unless you know it is true that he does really like you cause in the future, it would hurt.... if he was too like say, aww i am just messing with you cause you were like a younger sister...I really don't know what to say because i am just scared that you might get hurt...you know what i mean...

I am the same way too, it is hard for me to trust and thankgod i am still that way because if not, i would of been a little hoe... :loool: lol...

Well just go with what ever you think is best for you and please son't do anything that you will regret...thanks for listening to my story...

 

[LaLa23x23]

dont worry guys, i wont sleep with him, i dont give myself away like that. he's an expressive guy, he told me that when he thinks a girls pretty he'll tell her. and he did tell me before. and we were talking beofre, and he said "if i wanted action i could get some" trust me girls and guys, he's not like that...the only girls he ever lost it to was to his serious relationship girlfriends, which was only one. i really dont think he wants to get in my pants, but i think he might just be screwing with my head or maybe he does like me...*sigh* gosh i hate this

and onestupidguy, im scared to ask him, cause if he doesnt like me i dont him to be all werid around me and stuff. and i asked him one time when he was talking about me being an ass model "are you checking myass out?" and he said 'no of course not" soo...i guess....he's not like that...hopefully.

 

[marduk]

How long have you known him? I honestly don't know many 24 year olds that hang out with 17 year olds (no offense to you, just my point). If you have known him a while, then I guess I can see how you can believe his words. But here's my take on it.

I'm in a frat. I know a lot of older guys (heck, I'm one of them). Don't trust him. I'm usually not against older guys going after the younger girls. I've seen it done many times at parties and what am I going to do? Stop my friends? As a guy, I can't do that. However, the situations I'm in are different. I go to college parties and senior guys taking advantage of freshmen girls (while morally wrong) is just something that happens in college. However, with your situation it's different. You're in high school. This guy is 7 years older than you. Even if I gave him the benefit of a doubt and can see that he does like you, you have to wonder though "why is that?"

Look, from you pics, you're a pretty girl. So I'm not insulting you by questioning why he likes you. But he's 24. Why is he not with other girls his age. That's something to think about.

Don't trust him. That's all I really have to say. The choice is still up to you but that's my opinion.

 

[Nameless]

How long have you known him? I honestly don't know many 24 year olds that hang out with 17 year olds (no offense to you, just my point). If you have known him a while, then I guess I can see how you can believe his words. But here's my take on it.

I'm in a frat. I know a lot of older guys (heck, I'm one of them). Don't trust him. I'm usually not against older guys going after the younger girls. I've seen it done many times at parties and what am I going to do? Stop my friends? As a guy, I can't do that. However, the situations I'm in are different. I go to college parties and senior guys taking advantage of freshmen girls (while morally wrong) is just something that happens in college. However, with your situation it's different. You're in high school. This guy is 7 years older than you. Even if I gave him the benefit of a doubt and can see that he does like you, you have to wonder though "why is that?"

Look, from you pics, you're a pretty girl. So I'm not insulting you by questioning why he likes you. But he's 24. Why is he not with other girls his age. That's something to think about.

Don't trust him. That's all I really have to say. The choice is still up to you but that's my opinion.

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Amen to that Marduk. You took the words outta my mouth.

 

[LaLa23x23]

How long have you known him? I honestly don't know many 24 year olds that hang out with 17 year olds (no offense to you, just my point). If you have known him a while, then I guess I can see how you can believe his words. But here's my take on it.

I'm in a frat. I know a lot of older guys (heck, I'm one of them). Don't trust him. I'm usually not against older guys going after the younger girls. I've seen it done many times at parties and what am I going to do? Stop my friends? As a guy, I can't do that. However, the situations I'm in are different. I go to college parties and senior guys taking advantage of freshmen girls (while morally wrong) is just something that happens in college. However, with your situation it's different. You're in high school. This guy is 7 years older than you. Even if I gave him the benefit of a doubt and can see that he does like you, you have to wonder though "why is that?"

Look, from you pics, you're a pretty girl. So I'm not insulting you by questioning why he likes you. But he's 24. Why is he not with other girls his age. That's something to think about.

Don't trust him. That's all I really have to say. The choice is still up to you but that's my opinion.

thank you soo much...well..i've seen him around at the golf course for about a year now...and i started talking to ihm not too long ago..haha 1 month. lol.

I do think to myself, why does he like me...i remember him teling me before that im a nice person, who's pretty. and i told him that i trusted him and he said he'd never do anything bad to me. When we see each other, we just talk...sometimes the convo can get outa hand cause being me..im a pervert and so his he...but we're not the sexual kind of perverts...we just like to take things the wrong way cause its funny. so ya basically we're just tlaking, and he'll try to help me out in my game (i play golf) and stuff....

i get mad at myself for liking him too...im alawys say "why do you like him!! its impossible to ever date him...c'mon lalita, he's 7 years older htan you?" but i've never thought about him wanting to get in my pants, cause im have instincts and he's not one of those guys.... :mellow:

 

[Rakniran]

Does he know that you are posting his pics on the net? Did you ask for his promission already?

 

[LaLa23x23]

hahahaha no. but his pic is posted on the net..so..i dont think he'll mind. is it illegal?

 

[KawaiiTennyo]

wait for one more year than you'll be legal if he's that determined to like you then he can wait for another year.. and all he's doing is LIP SERVICE .. tell him to prove it! guys are all pigs well most of them.. you have to really know them very well.. so be careful especially guys that are older and more experienced than you.. my bf is 21 and im 18 it's not as bad at yours though.. 24 and 17? whoh wait till you're 18 and then you and him dont have to worry about JAILBAIT!!

 

[LaLa23x23]

he's not white, he's italian. should i just take it out the pics...cause i dont think he'll mind...plus he himself even posted it on the net..so...i dont think he minds.

kawaii...isnt illegal to sleep with a minor only. is it also illegal to date them too? i really doutbt that...plus...even if i wait till 18..im not even sure if he likes me....what do you think so far..i mean...how did you know that boyfriend liked you, what were the signs and stuff? so i can try to figure it out too lol

 

[KawaiiTennyo]

he's not white, he's italian. should i just take it out the pics...cause i dont think he'll mind...plus he himself even posted it on the net..so...i dont think he minds.

kawaii...isnt illegal to sleep with a minor only. is it also illegal to date them too? i really doutbt that...plus...even if i wait till 18..im not even sure if he likes me....what do you think so far..i mean...how did you know that boyfriend liked you, what were the signs and stuff? so i can try to figure it out too lol

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yea IT IS ILLEGAL TO DATE THEM TOO!! because there's kissing and huggin that's TOUCHING one another.. so it is ILLEGAL .. if he STOPS liking you a year from now.. that means he never liked you enough to stay for awhile.. so since you said that screw him.. it's not worth the time and pain.. believe me i went through hell and back with relationships.. I've been cheated on alot .. and I'm NOT having a CYNICAL over look JUST because of my past experienced but you should always learn from someone else's mistake just to be safe..

 

[simple-e]

Hrmm...how do you tell a guy likes you? I can't really tell either...but like they said, action speaks louder than words. So study his actions and look for signs. Don't take flirting as a sign of admiration cause older guys like to tease younger girls...or girls they consider 'little girls'. They're much older than you are so they are way ahead of you and has way more experiences. They know what to do or say to get through to you so just play safe and dont fall easily for em.

 

[LaLa23x23]

omg! that sucks..i didnt think dating a minor would be illegal. haha today, my other friend, hes 25 was there with me and nick (the guy i like) and i was sitting on the bench..and the 25 year old sat on me...he's a buff guy so he's pretty heavy, and im a stick compareed to him so it hurted. lol then i push the 25 year old off, and i almost fell over with him...and nick was looking at us. i was like in my head "ooh you getting jealous?" hahaha...then i was talking about this cute guy (bernard) to my friend...i was talking to her and not nick..and nick just says...who's benard? i wasl ike..umm...mind your own business lol but i didnt say it. haha i only talked about bernard to see nicks reaction.

then when all our friends left, nick was there with me talking...for like 5 mins...then we parted. one thing i dont like about nick is that he isnt that playful (not in that way) he doesnt crack me up as much as the 25 year old does...

 

[Wai Wai Noodles]

Could be just another pedophile just trying to get in your panties like they've said...I wouldnt trust him from what I've read under your post. The part that he told you that he'll never do anything bad or hurt you...Uhhhh tell me what bad person would admit to such things, Oh, if possible, it wouldnt hurt to peek at his criminal records LOL

 

[LaLa23x23]

^ haha youre soo funny.

im trying to get over him right now, cause i dont wanna like someone i know that will never like me back...just im trying to move on

 

[Rakniran]

^ haha youre soo funny.

im trying to get over him right now, cause i dont wanna like someone i know that will never like me back...just im trying to move on

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Yes ,is it illegal to date them too just like Kawii say. I would stay away from him,girl.He is trouble.EVen though ,i dont know him,but he should know better.oh gosh,italian are bad news.My ex was italian..After the break up..He went crazy.Wont leave me alone. After two months,I wont go back out iwth him..he hired some druggy dude to come over to my house and pretending to sale a t-bone steak cus thats my favorite food. I think he was gonna beat me up or something. Italian guys are trouble. They are so into their family and culture. They wont allow u to have your mind of your own..They are very greedy from my last experience with one..Never Italian anymore for me. Plus,he was a great liar.Even after three years ,he still bother me.

 

[dfemc]

yeah...he sounds like a pervert...

1. he's after the excitement and suspense behind chasing and leading on a "barely legal"

2. he does the usual guy talk...u know the BS-ing that comes out of Maxim mags on how to lure young girls

3. he tries to play cute...he just wants ACTION!

but if ur after all of the above: excitement, suspence, and ACTION too...then go for it!

we all have our niches.

 

[LaLa23x23]

hahahaha dfemc you're hilarious!! hahaha..action, maybe later...lol. suspense...oooh intrigueing...and excitements...haha what kind. lol

and rakniran, he hired a guy to come after you. gosh how crazy. he's just madly in love iwth you and you're just too irresistable haha. but i so agree on the fact that theyre into their culture. cause the one i like is sooo into his culture too. but im not sure if he's a psycho like your ex haha.