thatsouthernasianchick said:
I don't care who Bie dates. He and Noona just look cute together period. Not to mention he was super adorable with Ploy too. LOL.
I don't think Bie fans are immature. They're just...what you call...what's the word...'sprung' for BieNa. Hahahaha! I don't think they have anything personal against Mo; I'm sure it's just because they prefer Bie with Noona more. 'Immature' is not the word...I think the most suitable word is 'fanatic'. Haters are haters and biases are biases. Haters have their biases, you know.
There are some logical Bie fans who ARE just Bie and Noona fanatics. But there are also those fans of Bie who anti Mo simply because they find Bie and Noona cuter onscreen. And that IS immature. I know there are fans of Bie who LOVE Biena but ALSO respect Bie's decision in dating Mo. But there are also some Bie fans who bash Mo and say that she "brings him down". That's not just being a Biena fan, it's called being immature. Bie's fans haven't had a legitimate reason to dislike Mo from what I've seen other than them being big fans of Biena as an onscreen pair. And hey, I have my own favorite onscreen couples too but I sure as heck don't expect them to date in real life. On top of that, I would NEVER anti or bash the person they're with just because it's not their koo jin.
Once again, the only people who have brought Bie down are his own fans, NOT Mo. Is Mo a good influence on Bie? We don't know. But as a big fan of Mo, I believe she's a good person overall, and very thoughtful also. Some of Bie's fans act as if she's the worst person he could possibly ever date and that she's a bad influence on him. The truth is, we don't know who's a good person and who's just putting up a front. The thing I like about Mo though is that she appears real. She has her share of flaws, but she doesn't try to fake a sweet and innocent image like many others do. She displays herself, and that's a confident and honest woman. I think that's part of the reason why she's such a good actress too. She doesn't hold back. Whatever she's feeling, she'll tell you or it'll show in her face. Sometimes that kind of personality may come across as a bit bold (I have a cousin and a friend who are like that), but most of the times they don't have ill intentions. It really can benefit the person. I mean, how many of us can say that we have a real and honest friend who tells us like it is? There are teachers who are painfully honest to you, but a lot of the times, those are the ones who can push you to your fullest potential. And friends with that kind of personality are rare and special. They can be very helpful and meaningful in your life. Another thing I admire about Mo is that she doesn't look to please and kiss up to everyone she comes across.
Overall, I have nothing against Bie and Noona as an onscreen couple. But fans just need to back off when it comes to his personal life. Has it ever occurred to them that perhaps Bie is happy with Mo? And if they were actually accepting of who he dates, regardless of who it is, he could happily be in an open relationship with that person instead of hiding it from the public in fear of losing his "fans"? Why can't his fans just enjoy his work, whether it's singing or acting, and let him enjoy the other part of his life with the person he wants to enjoy it with? It's a win-win situation. A true fan would only want him to be happy in all aspects of his life.
I know there are plenty of real fans out there who support Bie, both professionally and personally. But I've also witnessed multiple incidences where his "fans" have attacked Mo (on YouTube, blogs, here, etc.), and that is unacceptable. Now if we switched the tables around and it were Bie and Noona dating instead, and Bie and Mo were the onscreen pair, and immature Bie and Mo fans were attacking Noona and saying that she "brings him down" simply because they find Bie and Mo cuter, I'm sure there would be many Noona fans who'd be upset by that too. It's unacceptable in either case. Support your favorite onscreen couples, but don't spread hate or talk down on the person they're dating just because it's not their koo jin. :nono1: