Lool Noon and Kade is a great example, especially considering how after his interview where he admitted to cheating, when Todd or Noon said something shady, comments on here didn’t seem to understand why either of them would have animosity towards a man that; cheated on her, made her get hated on, cast their relationship in a bad light due to all the claims of her being a gold digger (which she still gets today), publicly victimised himself for personal gain, increasing the hate they both received, never apologised and only admitted to cheating years later for publicity, glossing over how badly he treated her both during AND after they broke up.
I remember reading a comment about how they couldn’t believe Kade could cheat.. they then started praising the way his wife looks and bashing Noon’s appearance. To top it off they started talking about Noon’s fertility because she doesn’t want to or hasn’t been able to get pregnant and Kade wanted kids, implying that his behaviour was justified.
I thought people would call them out but others just continued to criticise Noon and Todd, calling them insecure, speculating on her marriage and basically continuing the narrative of “Noon is a gold digger in it for the money.”
Even years later, with fans aware that it was Kade that cheated they still managed to bash Noon and deflect from Kade’s bad behaviour. Fans are usually more lenient towards male celebrities than female stars. They are very understanding with men, but they have higher standards for women for both talent and behaviour.