lady0fdarkness said:
I hear what you're saying... but my gosh.. he did the ultimate low down and dirty thing. He bedded her and then turns around and dumps her and propose to another woman the next day. Not only did he betray Wadee, he is deceiving Gane too!!!!
At least for Wadee, she had an important obligation she needed to do for her parents!
But in a way that's kinda what she did to him, granted she didn't bedded him or take his virginity, but she did stab his heart and left him with no explaination, left him for all those years to not know the real reason why she left. He was left thinking she really did leave to marry someone else. I mean, I get that Nu'Lek was there for him when they were both poor but gosh with that note she just left and the news that she married a rich old man, I'd be angry too.
In ep9 I totally feel Khem's pain. I've been his place before, where you love someone so much, where you and that person has been there for each other through thick and thin and you never thought of being apart from them and just want to plan your future together, then all of a sudden with no explanation, they leave you. And you're left with so many questions, such frustration and hate for yourself that you aren't good enough that's why you were left lower than dirt, left like dust that they just easily brushed off their shoes. And for so many years you spend time alone in anger and in questions and you just want revenge, you just want that person to hurt as much and even more than you were hurt. You want them to feel the pain and loneliness you were left with, you want them to experience the traumatizing pain, and you want them to not forget, for them to remember, to be stained with the memories of you and be as hurt as you were. But even after you've gotten your revenge...you're not happy, you're not satisfied, you're even more hurt and frustrated and end up hating yourself even more because you don't really want to hurt them...the anger and revenge was just out of anger, was to mask your real feelings, was to hide the hurt and humiliation. What you really want is them, is their love, is for you both to return to how it was before all the pain and anger and frustrations and questions. You want them to not end your relationship, you want them to love you as much as you love them.
I really hope they do a good job to show Khem's side of the story and for audiences to be able to understand this. (but this doesn't excuse him being a jerk hehehehe) And Nu'Lek could've spilled out everything, explain why she left, why she came back to work for him (she did work for him knowing well that it was his company), granted he's a pathological liar and won't listen. I'm just saying, she could've explain things to him before she left because like everyone is saying to Khem, she was there for him when he was all poor and stuff, I'm sure he would've been understanding and willing to help. She just up and left with a heart stabbing note that gave the message "I'm leaving yo a**!" Again, I would've been angry and hated her for all those years too.
But I totally feel for Nu'Lek too and am rooting for her revenge but I already wrote a lot about her up there already so I won't repeat it here.