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cecilia

Staff member
Sleeping around is wrong in many levels, especially when she's in a committed relationship. I think that if she really want to just do it then she should just be honest with her boyfriend and take things from there. The future doesn't look bright for her once her boyfriend finds out ... really hope she comes to her senses soon. 
 

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sarNie OldFart
Sometimes, though those kind of relationship is like a domino because if he learned of her unfaithfulness what makes one so sure he'll ever trust a girl again. He will view any girls that might be a potential girlfriend as a whore. It is not fair to anyone beside his girlfriend that is sleeping around for her selfish needs.
 
If she says that she has better sex with someone she doesn't love...then in turn she doesn't love her boyfriend at all. There's no self worth when one think about it. Then again, those kind of girls probably have the most understanding boyfriend ever and if he learns of her behaviors he might forgive her and work on the relationship.
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
The thing is , she never date Asian man , only black but suddenly she have an Asian bf for about 2 year now . The guys that 'booty call' her is black man. She know its bad but she selfish and admit to it . She even have a pregnant scar once when her period didnt came because the baby will come out half black and she afraid her bf will found out , lucky she just late .My group of friend include divorcee, cougar, slut and old maid, lord if we do get marry, best of luck to those guy lol
 

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sarNie OldFart
They have this one show...I forgot the name of it. But the couple is Asian. Well, she had an affair with a black man that she once knew. When she was pregnant her husband was so happy and she didn't tell him that the baby might not be his. Her husband was so happy...and when she went into labor he was just beside himself until the baby came out. It was a black baby. The baby had no Asian in him whatsoever.
 
He was so pissed...she went to the black guy she had an affair with and he wants nothing to do with her even if the baby was his. He was already seeing another girl. So, she was left with the baby and her husband was gone. Later though, the husband decided to come back to her. He said, he's willing to overlook her affair and raised the baby as his even if the baby is black. He forgave her but made her promised to never cheat on him again :rolleyes1:
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
I saw a court tv show forgot which one, where this lady was cheating w/ a white man while marry to a black man and she had twin !! The baby was one black one white lol they were a black coupe and he didn't understand how the other twin came out white . He took her to court and did a dna test , found out she.was having.affair w / the land lord.
 

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sarNie OldFart
I love watching the old divorce court with judge maybelean (spelling) I usually LOL at the couples. But yeah, most of them are so screwed you don't even know how they thought getting married was a great idea in the first place.
 

Maya_Fantasy

sarNie Oldmaid
Is "someone" (ahem, ahem "cc") in love or something? What's with all these "love topic"?
 
I got to make time to read all these juicy story and advices in here.
 
You girls are a pro! :bravo:
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
I think Cell want to be in love , kind of sense it with her post haha as for me , it very obvious, I'm always out hunting for new victim.
 

Maya_Fantasy

sarNie Oldmaid
Maybe she already did met or has someone she's eyeing, so she needs ensuring now. :bhehe:
 
Cecilia, come tell us all your juicy secrets. We can help you decide if he's the one or not! :wink: :loool: hahahaha
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
true. it possible she have an eye on someone right now  :flowers: do share w/ us . I don't mind to share her a trick or two  . I'm good a rejection too , gone thur them like cookies and milk  :gungirl:
 

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sarNie OldFart
Gosh rejection sucks...
 
A friend of mine is so freaking good at it and so mean and blunt at the same time. One time at a store, a friend of her was trying to set her up with this one guy. She stood there as the guy made his way towards her. When he got near her, before he even said anything, she said "I don't talk to ugly people"
 
I know it might be mean at my part but when she told me, I laugh out loud because it is coming from her. She is overweight, her face has acnes and scars from them. Her hair is nappy and then on top of that she has 4 kids. But seriously, she for some reason, can attract guys like honey to a Bee. I will say, though she has one of the coolest personality. She can be anyone's friend and those that talk to her always come out laughing. She is one of those people that if anyone fall in love with her it ain't for her looks but for her personality.
 
I am always in awe at her because she'll tell me I am talking to this guy that guy...or I am dating this guy. I always ask her how does she do it? lol. Sad, to say though she hasn't able to get any of them :)
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
so true. the one that doesn't have much to offer but had a whole lot of baggage (kids&bill) always attract more honey  :whahuh: leave us single and child-less girls in the corner .
 

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sarNie OldFart
I think this particular friend of mine just knows how to talk to guys. She can easily make people laugh and that is her best quality. Cause by look alone girl got nothing lol. I love talking to her cause I laugh the hardest.
 
She likes younger guys too and she knows that with 4 kids no guy is going to want to be with her and marry her. She gotten over that stage now. She just want to have fun and date whoever she wants even if it doesn't last.
 

cecilia

Staff member
My brother-in-law tried to set me up with one of his friends this past weekend lol Good thing my sister stopped him before he took it too far lol
 
Me ... in love? No, just some affections for ... someone but this thread intention is made to educate myself and other of what good relationship should be like. Trying to learn as much as I can about human and their relationship with those around them lol
 
 
Byebye, your friend sounds like a fun person to be with ... and I guess it makes sense why guys are attracted to her. I'm attracted to funny guys .. they don't have to be the most handsome, just their personality alone will do it for me  :)
 

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sarNie OldFart
I like being around her CC cause life always seemed much lighter. She really is good at making conversations...it just flows with her.
 
I have to tell this story about her...she was working at a hotel cleaning the rooms. She went to one room and it has a no disturb sign. She started cleaning and all of sudden she had to used the restroom...like take a dump lol. She had her pants all the way down, the door opened and the girl got the nerve to sing while doing it. Well, suddenly the owner of the room walked in. She sang so loud she didn't hear the door opened. :bhehe:
 
The guy walked passed the restroom and then backed himself slowly because he could not believe someone was using his toilet. He stood there and look at her in the glory of taking a dump. He didn't say anything just shook his head and walked out of the room. :lol: :lol: :lol:
 
I asked her why she didn't close the door? She said, she didn't think he would be back...he just happened to get something he forgot in the room. So, I asked her how come she didn't hold it? She said, she could not because the night before she took the diet tea and it gave her diarrhea :lolyup: :lolyup: :lolyup:
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
byebye said:
I think this particular friend of mine just knows how to talk to guys. She can easily make people laugh and that is her best quality. Cause by look alone girl got nothing lol. I love talking to her cause I laugh the hardest.
 
She likes younger guys too and she knows that with 4 kids no guy is going to want to be with her and marry her. She gotten over that stage now. She just want to have fun and date whoever she wants even if it doesn't last.
 
You know something , your friends sound like the future me HAHA . i do see myself with 4 kids  and still dating younger man on side . I also have a great sense of humor and quite flirtatious as well because I TOO have to step it up in the dating game with age not on my side  , it now or nothing ! I DO want to have fun and know it won't  last but it does't stress me . Your friend and me can be sister !
 

cecilia

Staff member
^LOL You're making me laugh so hard ... doing that with 4 kids -- wouldn't it be too much of a burden on your children to bear? I don't know, I can't picture myself doing this to them (of course, I will never allow myself to be in that kind of situation lol).  I told my mom that if I can't find my Mr.Right then I'm going to be single and happy like this ... I just need to save lots of money and travel with friends/families. Forget holiday romance lol 
 

sarN

sarNie Granny
O' Cell, I'm probably a bad mommy tooo , for those future kid, I do pray they will have the same father hahaha. I base my love life according to the statistic in the usa, single mom is at it highest you know and true love is after at least one divorce.



@byebye , I have use the men rest room a few time myself and came out the stall to wash my hand /w the boys as well. The look on their faces when I retouch on my lip stick and fix my hair and ask them for direction was more entertaining than seeing a monkey in a zoo.
 

Maya_Fantasy

sarNie Oldmaid
:lmao3:  OMG you girls are cracking me up here! Soon I will need to use the stall too. :loool:
 
I don't care how a person look, as long as they are good and have a happy sense of humor then I consider them the best person/peoples to hang around with.  Byebye you're lucky to have friends like that.
 
I had by mistake used the men restroom once, at a rest stop. :yahoo:  I walked, in and notice there was a bidet on the corner of my eyes, but I didn't pay much attention to it.  Went in the stall do my #1... and while I was in the middle of washing my  hands, in came a man... he look at me, I look at him and I said "are you in the wrong restroom or I was?" HAHAHAHA he went out check the sign and I looked around and told him, "never mind, I did". :loool: I laugh my head off and ran out! :coverlaf:
 
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