I honestly don't pity him anymore .. He needs to stop doing that if he made up his mind to not associate himself with her because at this rate he's quite selfish. Sure, it's good that he's sacrificing himself for her but by sneaking around to do good for her like this .. it's not helping her to move on. It only make her long for him more. Also, he should be direct and tell Pat that he's in this marriage to save her face and not to forget, forgive and love her again .. what she want of him can't be given (especially love).
Seriously, i don't get Pat either .. she's the one who cheated on him, how can she be so thick face and demanding like this ... *sigh* He needs to stand up for himself and not let Pat take advantage of him ... she does not deserve someone like him at all. And yes, June deserve someone who will make her happy ... half full is better than a full miserable cup.